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Q&A a Day: Today you needed more… hugs and high fives.

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I got on the stair climber for the first time in three months and only lost a minute and a half off my time; and had a great workout on the bosu (BOth Sides Up) ball. I had an enjoyable breakfast full of eggs, puppies, sunshine, and conversation before getting to work and being a soccer coach during recess and a kickball coach before going inside to learn about the spine and balance of 9 and 10 year olds.

I went to my ortho appointment at 3:05, read for a bit in an empty waiting room, got my x-ray that shows improvement, and was told to move forward with pain as my guide (but to wait to run for another month and to dive this summer). My foot will continue to change colors and swell a bit, but I don’t have a follow-up scheduled and now I can go paddle boarding.

I had another heavy dinner and will continue to digest it as I finish my second book for January and get through the last 40 of the 500 page book (with lots of websites and further reading to distract me along the way) for a total of three books this month. I’ve also accomplished: walking the dogs 24 days, doubling my water intake, blogging every day, and getting to a 21 day streak on my language learning app.

The hugs and the high fives are from the kids; some ask, some tell, and some just take. Others like to turn it into a competition and I love anything positive, so of course I encourage it. I had a girl today ask to hear me laugh (of which I have many to choose from depending on the mood) and I told her to tell me a joke, but she didn’t have the chance before I was giggling at something.

What’s something more you needed in your life today?

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You

Q&A a Day: What makes “you” you? This seems like such a loaded question.

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I’m the girl with the loud laugh; the one who cuts herself with any blade larger than a paring knife; I’ll try to think before I speak and realize it’s too late; I’ll be nice for too long even after the person is mean or annoying; I have a hard time saying no, regardless of scheduling conflicts; I’ll procrastinate a bit but never wait till the last-minute; I’ll eavesdrop on a conversation, especially if it’ll make me laugh or if I can help answer a question; I’m the first person to take it a step too far, but only in most situations.

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I find it easier to get along with those outside my age range, sometimes by 20 years or more; I love hugs and always hug the person with the sign; I think about others quite often and wonder how well I know them as most days I wonder if I know myself; I’m constantly pretending to get rid of things while Caleb is actively collecting them; I love when I’m super motivated but it comes in waves (for balance); I love the way skunks smell and babies laugh; I love relationships with people but don’t always try enough.

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Most days I feel like a teenager even though I’ve been an adult technically for a decade. I’ve been described as lovely, lazy, daring, caring, adventurous, curious, unreliable, dangerous, absurd, spirited, mercurial, cute, hungry, full of life, crazy, weird, unromantic, stinky, athletic, short, beautiful, narcissistic, sweet, helpful, strong, skilled, naive, nerdy, trustworthy, funny, memorable, awkward, sexy, confusing, positive, talkative, outgoing, social, loving, spontaneous, honest, over sharing, and fast.

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I’m always up for trying something new; apparently my eyes smile; I’m terrible at gifting and being formal; I baby talk my dogs but am too forward with kids; I brush off broken bones as mere bruises; I always pick up the penny. The simple answer: my DNA, the people I’ve met, the places I’ve been, the food I’ve eaten, the scars I’ve acquired, the memories I’ve made, the secrets I’ve kept, and the friends I’ve forgotten. My curiosity,  kindness, and ability to be random have gotten me the farthest.

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My rambling of words whether thought, spoke, or written. I’ve always loved reading. The things I’ve done and the stuff yet to happen will define the following years. I will want to look back on this post and yesterday’s in a decade and see how I’m coming along. What’s that quote… “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” And this is what makes “me” me.

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30 Things in My 30s: Number One

I’ve learned that each decade is a repeat of the last, examples:

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drink: 10yo juice, 20yo booze, 30yo kombucha
school: 10yo free public, 20yo paid college, 30yo paid to work in
bicycle: 10yo with dog, 20yo with husband, 30yo spin class/beach
dishes: 10yo chore, 20yo newlywed, 30yo trying new soap and sponge
car: 10yo rides from mom, 20yo stealing boyfriend’s, 30yo own and a loan

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dance: 10yo cheerleader, 20yo bar, 30yo Zumba
writing: 10yo paper journal, 20yo starting to blog, 30yo maintaining blog
housing: 10yo with family, 20yo with roommates, 30yo with husband and dogs
injury: 10yo hospitalized twice, 20yo concussion, 30yo broken toe
exercise: 10yo recess and pe, 20yo military pt/newlywed, 30yo gym and classes
books: 10yo Mom reads IT to me, 20yo read IT to myself, 30yo gifted first edition IT

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phone: 10yo corded, 20yo cell, 30yo texts
boat: 10yo go out with parents’, 20yo go out with Navy, 30yo go out on own boat
bills: 10yo parents pay, 20yo struggles to pay, 30yo diversified portfolio
food: 10yo lives off pb&j’s, 20yo cooks pb&j’s, 30yo makes healthier pb&j’s
dad: 10yo writes letters, 20yo calls, 30yo waits for him to call

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bed: 10yo sleeping in bunk bed, 20yo on futon/air mattress, 30yo Tempur-Pedic
research: 10yo encyclopedia, 20yo Google, 30yo internet to search for books
travel: 10yo family vacation, 20yo road trips, 30yo international
bath: 10yo time with bubbles, 20yo showers quickly, 30yo looks forward to a bath
dogs: 10yo teaches new tricks, 20yo gets two new dogs, 30yo deals with senior dogs
internet: 10yo dial-up, 20yo wired, 30yo wireless

camping
camping: 10yo in trailer, 20yo on ground, 30yo on mattress
kids: 10yo wanted lots, 20yo likes practicing, 30yo happy without
waking: 10yo Mom is my alarm, 20yo roommate motivation, 30yo on a schedule
also kids: 10yo babysitting, 20yo working with “kids”, 30yo working out with them
make-up: 10yo can’t wear it, 20yo don’t wear much, 30yo wear sunscreen/moisturizer

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Q&A a Day: If you were going to start your own company, what would it be? At 10yo I wanted to be a teacher, at 20yo a psychiatrist, computer scientist, author, photographer, and world traveler, and at 30yo I want to dive and travel and be healthy and happy and share these goals with others. I would start a company that motivates people to make a positive difference in their life — in their home, brain, and body. Maybe one day I’ll own a dive shop and fitness center next to my husband’s garage.

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Break Me Off

Q&A a Day: Do you need a break? From what? I’m on a break from school till Monday and off of my nine year employment hiatus.

Pedaling along, over 100 rpm, and this is what I hear: the swoosh of rowing, the squeaky bike beside me, pounding of feet, pulling of cable, steady heavy forced breathing, rusting chains clanking, dumbbells dropping, men sweating while they wait, bad news on tv, phone ringing, music barely audible, treadmill cruising, elliptical buttons beeping, towels wiping, bottle spraying, someone grunting, and words of guidance, just to name a few reasons why I should, but don’t wear headphones.

I dropped Caleb off on the corner because it was faster for him to walk to work in 21 minutes instead of wait at least twice that in traffic (though he had a van bump into him and a Jeep try to run him over at the first intersection). It took me just as long to drive to the gym in Coronado. I got on the elliptical for the first time in months and was going to row next, but someone beat me to it. I had a decent, but short workout, and walked into the sauna like I owned it (like I do on the weekends when no one is there).

But this time I found three other women inside. Two were quite uncomfortable with my attire (or lack thereof, but I did bring a towel) and the other was giving off such positive vibes. When the negative ninnies left I thought I’d be able to stretch out, but it wasn’t long before the staff came to tell me I’d need another towel to stay inside. The positive woman with me stated that other people are self conscious of their bodies and have to shame others for theirs. I agree, but I thought women were marching to stick together.

I showered quickly, but dressed slowly as I listened to the woman, 50 years old, talk with a 62 year old in the shower about one recovering from knee and the other from heart surgery to do the Spartan race and impressing the active duty girls with their seven mile hike. I went over and chatted with them a bit and told them my blind dog can hike that far and that those girls should get new inspiration. They had been complimenting each other on looks as well, and I agree. I hope to look that well at their age, and they say it’s because they can ride 112 miles on a bike in one day. I’ve only done 50 miles in one day, but did it for three days in a row.

I circle the parking lot of the clinic where I’m due for my well woman exam at 9:45. I find a spot as someone pulls out and inside most of the seats are full. I know my appointment will be late. I get a voicemail afterwards telling me that my time was moved to 10:05, but I’m still not seen until 10:30. I’m able to read half of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl while I wait. The doctor is super kind and has a sense of humor. While he’s knuckle deep he asks, “Any discomfort besides the obvious discomfort of the exam?” but I’m fine. He wasn’t shy about his work and was happy with what he saw professionally.

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“Hello, I see you moving in there.”

We got out the foam rollers today in class and the kids had a blast pretending they were racecar drivers, surfers, long boarders, cats, goats, rabbits, and flamingos while they worked on their balance and jumping skills. I got to play along and had fun too. Outside was kickball and now the kids are pitching so I’m more of a sideline coach with less sun in my eyes (which is a good thing because I forgot my sunscreen today). We had one kid being too bossy during soccer and a girl doing a fake manicure get hit by a ball, but otherwise a good day with no trips to the nurse and not too many tears.

It’s a good thing Caleb messaged me or I would’ve bypassed him (as I’m his ride). I waited five minutes outside his office and then left him outside the house to work on the car till dark while I came inside for a snack with the dogs before walking them before sunset for the warmth the sun offers on these cool San Diego days. I checked my email and received my DXA (dual-energy x-ray absorptiometry) scan results from Dec. 10th that I got done at UCSD to help their students prepare for a future study and to test my bone density.

The scan also measures body fat percentage and I compared it to the In-Body composition (a bioelectrical impedance analysis) and I don’t agree with one of them, but that can be fixed. My resting metabolic rate is 1,427 calories/day and my bone mineral density Z-score (age/gender matched comparison) is 1.4 (with a healthy range between -1 and 4). My RSMI (relative skeletal muscle index) is 6.91 kg/m², which is the amount of muscle in my limbs relative to my height. I’m at risk below 5.45 at which point I would be 38% body fat or greater.

Finally, the T-score which came back great for my lumbar spine and left femur, but has me waiting to ask ortho (I have my broken toe appt. on Friday) about osteopenia (low bone density before osteoporosis — a condition that makes your bones look like Swiss cheese) in my left forearm. I should probably do more push-ups and eat more calcium. I finally increased my step target back up to 10,000 steps from 3,000 with crutches and the last month at 9,000 with a 66% success rate.

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tempeh-carrot-onion salad with citrus habanero oil dressing

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Blanket or Mountain

Q&A a Day: Are you seeking security or adventure? Both; I want to be secure in my body, choices, and finances; and adventurous with my body, mind, and choices.

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work in progress

I ventured in the yard this morning to pull weeds, a task that will seemingly take weeks.

I held in a laugh among the 7 and 8 year olds when one of them farted in class.

I watched a girl get knocked on her knees during kickball and not cry.

I did the dishes twice (small sink) and made dinner while Caleb worked on the car.

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bringing planking back

I walked the dogs twice and got whistled at by my neighbor this morning.

I heard from my sister today and saw my niece for the first time, she’s almost 3.

I looked around the parts store, at owls and such, while Caleb shopped.

I sat here and typed while Caleb read Dracula by Bram Stoker.

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flannel owl air freshener

 

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