Break Me Off

Q&A a Day: Do you need a break? From what? I’m on a break from school till Monday and off of my nine year employment hiatus.

Pedaling along, over 100 rpm, and this is what I hear: the swoosh of rowing, the squeaky bike beside me, pounding of feet, pulling of cable, steady heavy forced breathing, rusting chains clanking, dumbbells dropping, men sweating while they wait, bad news on tv, phone ringing, music barely audible, treadmill cruising, elliptical buttons beeping, towels wiping, bottle spraying, someone grunting, and words of guidance, just to name a few reasons why I should, but don’t wear headphones.

I dropped Caleb off on the corner because it was faster for him to walk to work in 21 minutes instead of wait at least twice that in traffic (though he had a van bump into him and a Jeep try to run him over at the first intersection). It took me just as long to drive to the gym in Coronado. I got on the elliptical for the first time in months and was going to row next, but someone beat me to it. I had a decent, but short workout, and walked into the sauna like I owned it (like I do on the weekends when no one is there).

But this time I found three other women inside. Two were quite uncomfortable with my attire (or lack thereof, but I did bring a towel) and the other was giving off such positive vibes. When the negative ninnies left I thought I’d be able to stretch out, but it wasn’t long before the staff came to tell me I’d need another towel to stay inside. The positive woman with me stated that other people are self conscious of their bodies and have to shame others for theirs. I agree, but I thought women were marching to stick together.

I showered quickly, but dressed slowly as I listened to the woman, 50 years old, talk with a 62 year old in the shower about one recovering from knee and the other from heart surgery to do the Spartan race and impressing the active duty girls with their seven mile hike. I went over and chatted with them a bit and told them my blind dog can hike that far and that those girls should get new inspiration. They had been complimenting each other on looks as well, and I agree. I hope to look that well at their age, and they say it’s because they can ride 112 miles on a bike in one day. I’ve only done 50 miles in one day, but did it for three days in a row.

I circle the parking lot of the clinic where I’m due for my well woman exam at 9:45. I find a spot as someone pulls out and inside most of the seats are full. I know my appointment will be late. I get a voicemail afterwards telling me that my time was moved to 10:05, but I’m still not seen until 10:30. I’m able to read half of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl while I wait. The doctor is super kind and has a sense of humor. While he’s knuckle deep he asks, “Any discomfort besides the obvious discomfort of the exam?” but I’m fine. He wasn’t shy about his work and was happy with what he saw professionally.

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“Hello, I see you moving in there.”

We got out the foam rollers today in class and the kids had a blast pretending they were racecar drivers, surfers, long boarders, cats, goats, rabbits, and flamingos while they worked on their balance and jumping skills. I got to play along and had fun too. Outside was kickball and now the kids are pitching so I’m more of a sideline coach with less sun in my eyes (which is a good thing because I forgot my sunscreen today). We had one kid being too bossy during soccer and a girl doing a fake manicure get hit by a ball, but otherwise a good day with no trips to the nurse and not too many tears.

It’s a good thing Caleb messaged me or I would’ve bypassed him (as I’m his ride). I waited five minutes outside his office and then left him outside the house to work on the car till dark while I came inside for a snack with the dogs before walking them before sunset for the warmth the sun offers on these cool San Diego days. I checked my email and received my DXA (dual-energy x-ray absorptiometry) scan results from Dec. 10th that I got done at UCSD to help their students prepare for a future study and to test my bone density.

The scan also measures body fat percentage and I compared it to the In-Body composition (a bioelectrical impedance analysis) and I don’t agree with one of them, but that can be fixed. My resting metabolic rate is 1,427 calories/day and my bone mineral density Z-score (age/gender matched comparison) is 1.4 (with a healthy range between -1 and 4). My RSMI (relative skeletal muscle index) is 6.91 kg/m², which is the amount of muscle in my limbs relative to my height. I’m at risk below 5.45 at which point I would be 38% body fat or greater.

Finally, the T-score which came back great for my lumbar spine and left femur, but has me waiting to ask ortho (I have my broken toe appt. on Friday) about osteopenia (low bone density before osteoporosis — a condition that makes your bones look like Swiss cheese) in my left forearm. I should probably do more push-ups and eat more calcium. I finally increased my step target back up to 10,000 steps from 3,000 with crutches and the last month at 9,000 with a 66% success rate.

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tempeh-carrot-onion salad with citrus habanero oil dressing

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Blanket or Mountain

Q&A a Day: Are you seeking security or adventure? Both; I want to be secure in my body, choices, and finances; and adventurous with my body, mind, and choices.

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work in progress

I ventured in the yard this morning to pull weeds, a task that will seemingly take weeks.

I held in a laugh among the 7 and 8 year olds when one of them farted in class.

I watched a girl get knocked on her knees during kickball and not cry.

I did the dishes twice (small sink) and made dinner while Caleb worked on the car.

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bringing planking back

I walked the dogs twice and got whistled at by my neighbor this morning.

I heard from my sister today and saw my niece for the first time, she’s almost 3.

I looked around the parts store, at owls and such, while Caleb shopped.

I sat here and typed while Caleb read Dracula by Bram Stoker.

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flannel owl air freshener

 

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Sunglasses

Q&A a Day: What are you looking forward to? A very bright future.

I have the gym, work, husband, puppies, and of course food to look forward to tomorrow.

Caleb’s workout got interrupted, his waffles turned into our pancakes, and our dinner into marinading it tonight and enjoying leftovers instead.

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quinoa, tempeh, and beet salad

I’ve got classes starting on the 29th and graduation to look forward to at the end of May. Then I will take my certification test for Personal Trainer and attend the IDEA World Convention 2018 in San Diego.

I plan on applying for a job at a local school or on base and maybe teach one of their weekend classes (once I get more training). I will do that until Caleb gets out of the navy in October 2023 and then we will take his much-needed vacation (beard growing break) before we figure out the rest of our lives… to include hiking, travel, and diving.

Then we possibly become dive instructors and live in awesome places and take people to the bottom of the ocean in exchange for their money.

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my family afternoon

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Grudgery

Q&A a Day: Are you holding a grudge? About? Nope.

I cut my pinky knuckle on the playground and then bent my nail so hard to give myself a blood blister on the same finger. I thought I would be picking up Uncle Ed after 4 pm on Friday and came home to change for the gym and cash the check I got for selling my books back a month ago.

Good thing Caleb came with me because I started feeling ill and we went to the store to pick up meat and beer and get home with Uncle Ed in the driveway. The men enjoyed sausages and IPAs while I had some medicinal tea and started to sleep on the couch.

We got to the gym on time Saturday morning and I went to the sauna, tried to lift a weight, went back to the sauna and ended up sleeping in the car to wait on Caleb. I took a two hour nap when we got home while he made us brunch.

Uncle Ed was up for hanging out as long as we didn’t walk another 10+ miles, so the men agreed on the USS Midway to spend the afternoon. We spent two hours on board and then walked to Cheesecake Factory for dinner, because I was the one who wanted a slice, but ordered eggs instead.

We went back to our place to walk the dogs and I had some more tea. We went back to Uncle Ed’s room to watch ‘Big Trouble in Little China’ and Ed noticed how entertained I was only ten minutes in. If I’d have known he had Gabriel “Fluffy” Iglesias on his hard drive as well I would’ve suggested we watch that instead.

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waiting in line

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coming aboard

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historical illustration

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chaplain in stateroom

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view from the deck

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the flight deck

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Food List

Q&A a Day: List three foods you ate today: yogurt, lentils, and couscous.

I didn’t have soy or almond milk in the fridge so I mixed my mocha protein powder with my plain Greek yogurt before having a wheat biscuit (cut in thirds) with lentil gravy on two-thirds and peanut butter and strawberry jelly on the other third.
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Lunch was couscous with spinach, oranges, and cinnamon (leftovers from the other night) and a sunbutter and jelly sandwich on wheat bread.

Dinner was potato and onions (from Uncle Ed) with chicken and beer (from the store). I added two coconut cookies and a cup of medicine tea to my menu and will be taking some more before bed.

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