A Busy Day

shopping - souq style!

shopping – souq style!

Caleb wakes me at 5am to take him to work. I bring paperwork that I won’t need until later, if I even decide to come back to base today. I get to the gym at 5:30am and though it’s busy a treadmill is open. I run a mile and a half today in 15:30 – not bad for being on leave for so long. I try some of the other equipment – using more weights on some and less on others. I feel like such a noob in here next to all these other girls that are in a routine with their tone muscles, flexible legs, strong arms, and sweaty faces.

I go back to the locker room and someone comes out of the sauna, so I go in. There is a girl on the floor working out which makes me feel that I must do the same. This only shortens the time I’m in there as 40 celsius is hot on my dry throat. The shower this morning has no problem finding the cold water, and luckily there are two drains per shower – one to catch immediate water and the other to catch spray and runoff where you can dry off before opening the curtain.

I get back to the house at 7am and the dogs aren’t ready to go out yet, so I go to breakfast. One guy comes in and pours two cups of coffee. Soon he is joined by another guy and they are speaking Swedish perhaps as another four come in. The room is getting smaller as I finish my breakfast and grab an egg for the dogs. One guy orders an omelet with bacon – ahh, the freedoms of Bahrain.

Angel and Nick playing hide and seek with Jay

Angel and Nick playing hide and seek with Jay

I walk the dogs and then take the bathroom trash bag out to pick up after them. It was ok when the grass was dry and their poo baked from the sun. Now, a water truck comes by making the grass moist and the poo melted in. I pick up what I can and then grab trash along the way. It’s a larger bag so I pick up some of the bottles from the dirt lot and the hotel manager tells me the municipality will come. I smile as I wonder how often they come. The glass bottles (that break and cause a walking hazard for my dogs) and the half full water bottles have been there since we moved in. I’m ok with accepting the culture and watching them throw trash out their windows, but I’m also ok with picking up after them.

Amy is here at 8:30 to pick me up with her son Nick and his friend Jay. We drive to base to get some cash and then drive to the Manama Souq. We would’ve parked across the street but the main lot was full and they had yet to open the other one, so we drove down the street, past Golden City, and parked in the dirt lot. There we met with Reika, Chrissy and her daughter Angel, Yanell and her son Lucas, and then Jay’s mom met us in the tailor/fabric shop.

I went with Amy outside to the perfume, watch, and sunglass hut next door and watched her haggle for perfume for her, cologne for the husband, and two pairs of sunglasses for her son – knock-off Oakley’s so he doesn’t wear his nice ones to work. Inside someone was getting fitted while the kids played hide-and-seek upstairs. From there, most of us went to base. Nick had basketball practice and the rest of us were ready for a drink.

me and Lucas hanging out

me and Lucas hanging out

I rode with Reika and we met Chrissy at the smoothie stand. I got a strawberry, pineapple, cucumber, mango smoothie – delicious and refreshing. Then we went to Smash Hit Subs and Pizza and two pizzas and some bread sticks were ordered. I had what was left of the hollowed out sticks when Angel was done with them and Amy shared some of her trail mix. I didn’t think I was hungry, but watching others eat, realising that breakfast was a long time ago, and that it is lunch time and the smoothie was more of a hydrator than a filler I didn’t mind snacking.

We hung out and all had something to say, sometimes carrying on multiple conversations at once. Chrissy had to go clean, Reika wanted to take a nap, Amy had another hour to use for studying while waiting on Nick. Reika gave me a ride home and I walked the dogs. As soon as I brought them inside the houseboy was ringing the bell. Good timing. Our floors are starting to resemble more beach than marble. Then I can feed the dogs and find something to do to fill my time between now and when the event starts at the church at 9:30pm.

Facebook got the better of me again, but I enjoy sharing all the good things about Bahrain with people curious enough to ask. I did manage to publish the post that has taken me days to get the pictures loaded – distraction and slow internet haven’t helped either. I started getting restless around 7pm and I think I fed the dogs instead of taking them out. Piggy ate of course, but Sparky didn’t – did I already feed them?

driving towards the church

driving towards the church

I looked the place up on Google Maps, but my phone wouldn’t find it. I had no problem with the Waze app and thought I would leave early. There are shops, cemeteries, and gardens nearby the Sacred Heart Church so I would have something to walk around and see. I was good until the last left where I was directed to enter an alley thick enough for a bicycle. I didn’t mind though as this let me go through a street of lights. There was a sports building in all white, another with multi-colors strung up, and so much more.

The shops were coming to life (pun intended) and people were in the street. I was going slow enough to let the brave ones cross. I would obviously stop for them. I wanted badly to just park in the street like the others, but the car may get hit or I might get blocked in – and I’m alone. I looked at all the men walking in groups and the women traveling in pairs covered in burkas. I knew I would draw attention – and I’m not ready for that alone yet.

I drove the same route again before finding a way out. On the street to my hotel there are two boys playing soccer. I stop mid speed hump to let the boy fetch his ball and return to his friend or brother before continuing. Then the night guard helps me park and opens my door before I’m ready. I suppose I shouldn’t be so quick to turn off the car. Or I could lock the doors as they don’t do it automatically like mine after you reach a certain speed.

I love the nightlife here. The temperature cools down, the street lights come on (not always the headlights), and people are everywhere – sitting, walking, shopping – and pausing in their car to listen to the nightly prayer (at least that’s what I did). Greetings are quick inside before the dogs go back to bed – Piggy on my pillow and Sparky on the couch. Another night with Facebook, but I made some new friends and found some artsy fartsy classes I can take on the island. I could probably do a lot of the projects myself, but then I have to supply the materials and have no company during the process.

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Something Different

the Jedi Master on base

the Jedi Master on base

We are out of the house so early this morning that the dogs don’t have a chance to get out of bed. I notice this is the second day that the XO makes a left turn before us, getting to the lot before us in her black BMW. I’m sure if we could afford it (sacrifice something else) we would be driving something out of the ordinary for us for the two-month rental.

I get home and fall asleep on the couch next to Sparky for 20 minutes, so I go into the bedroom to lay down for another 40 until breakfast. I end up sleeping twice as long. I need to turn the air back down in the bedroom as it helps me sleep. Today will be the first morning that I don’t have fruit and try the chocolate flake cereal that I mix with the muesli and corn flakes; it’s too sweet by itself. And it will be the first morning I have two full bowls of cereal. Some mornings I get a few more flakes to go with my banana. I take a muffin and yogurt for later.

I looked up the Currency Museum located inside the Central Bank of Bahrain. The Waze app said it would take 18 minutes to get there. I pulled over to figure out the app, when it wouldn’t find my location, because Google Maps couldn’t find my destination (thinking I’m still in the States). I only got lost once, had to back up out of an alley, and then turn around between cars and a building with a chair outside – not looking forward to driving an SUV in these conditions.

The streets downtown remind me of New York City – cars parked everywhere, some with hazards on, and people in the street. I drove past and noticed lots of parking elsewhere, but my phone had already lost over 20% battery. How much would I have left to help me find the car again and then to get back to the room to get the paperwork I need to take to base today by 3pm. I decided I would go home and watch pictures slowly upload to my blog while I catch up on some much-needed reading.

Outside of the hotel is an upset mother of three. The youngest not strong enough to undo his harness in his hand carrier in the front seat, but the two in the back giving her a hard time, “I can’t stand outside of the car for thirty minutes strapping you in! It’s hot out here!” This heat that’s arrived makes people short-tempered and rude. You knew it was coming and should have planned for it. I may be adjusting too quickly. I don’t feel as hot, but I also drink more water now than I ever have.

seconds before the boom

seconds before the boom

Instead of blogging and reading I ended up taking a nap after a few pages. There was a line at housing when I got there at 1:45 so I went to the gym, changed, ran, showered, and grabbed a smoothie – carrot, pineapple, mango – before going back to housing to find out that I still don’t have all the right paperwork. I talked with a guy trying to figure out his funding for his family before walking to the Personal Property Office only to find out that they closed 30 minutes ago.

I get home and Caleb is texting me 20 minutes later to pick him up. This is his latest day yet. We drive home and decide on watching the cannon at Arad Fort and then going to dinner. We got there five minutes before the howitzer went off. I took a picture as the guy sat on the gun and got a video of the smoke clearing. Caleb plugged my ears for me, but I still felt the force of the recoil hit my body. The parking lot was quickly cleared, as if all the people had watched from the comfort of the A/C in their cars.

I had mentioned David’s Stir Fry Crazy (near Paco’s) so that’s where we headed, but when we got to where it ‘should’ be, according to Caleb’s map, we found Bambu instead serving Chinese and Oriental cuisine. Going through the entryway there are trees on the right and a fountain on the left. They have thick carpeted floors and I take my shoes off as we sit at a table for two near the window with a view of outside seating.

We order garlic fried rice, vegetable noodle, spring rolls with ginger soy sauce and sweet chilli sauce, and curried potatoes with peas. I have fun trying to pick up slippery potatoes with chopsticks and Caleb refuses to use a fork for his last bit of rice. Tonight’s entertainment will be the two little girls – one Asian two-year old and one European 19-month old playing around the tables. They don’t seem to disturb the Indian family, and definitely not us, in the cozy establishment.

I don’t bring up ethnic background for segregation purposes. I talk about them to let others know about the melting pot that is Bahrain. I know there are other countries, and especially large cities in the States, that have similar claims, but where I’ve lived these different groups seem to stick to themselves. Here, we live as neighbors, eat as friends, and reach out to strangers to help them when we can.

We finished the 1.5 litre bottle of water, but will be bringing home plenty of leftovers. Piggy goes to bed while I get ready for tomorrow – more paperwork, clean outfits, and putting away clothes, receipts, and dishes.

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A Long Wait on Base

on the door to breakfast

on the door to breakfast

Caleb had duty last night, but I still got up on time so that I could work on my blog. I can’t wait to get our stuff back so I can have photo editing software – the size of the images are eating up space. I paid for ten days at the front desk at 7:30, and that leaves us five days behind. The guy behind the counter asks how I’m liking Bahrain and when I tell him I want to see more of the Middle East he assures me only Bahrain and Dubai like to party – I’m sure that’s not why I’m here, but I smile anyways.

I went by housing at 8am and was told that after dealing with these people for three weeks by myself that I would need my husband or a power of attorney – really?! So I text him and he can get off work at lunch, the duty van will be there at 12:30… Or I could drive to the hotel, pick up the P.O.A., and drive back.

new athletic gear

new athletic gear

I go to the NEX for two hours to find some exercise clothes – something else I need to be doing. I find two outfits and get a new pair of shoes. I can go back to wearing my old ones, but I don’t know when they will get here. Downstairs I check the mail and the envelope from Uncle Ed has arrived. In it is Caleb’s driver’s license, our new credit cards to replace the ones that expired, our title without lien, some receipts, copies of paperwork, and a vehicle inspection form with no helpful information on it.

I go by the immigration office at 10:30am and pick up our CPR cards (a sheet of paper), then go by PSD at 11am to submit TLA only to be told that needs to be done at housing too. I text Caleb I will be there waiting for him – for over an hour and taking a nap. Today is the hottest yet and the humidity is thick. It feels different breathing in such warm air. Luckily I can drink water on base.

construction container

construction container

Caleb wakes me up at 12:30pm and we turn in the termination letter and get a new pre-contract. We are missing two forms needed to turn in more TLA. Guess I have that to look forward to tomorrow. We are ready to go home and relax. As soon as Caleb cools off, and starts a load of one set of coveralls in the wash, he wants to go look at the villa. We walk over there around 3pm, but not much can be seen from the front. We will meet with the property manager in three hours so that Caleb can look at the place and we can give Mahesh the pre-contract.

Time to go to Alosra for salad and water. Their pre-made salad selection isn’t as great as I thought. Most of it is different flavoured feta, but we do find a Greek, tabbouleh, and broccoli salad, and a veggie wrap. Getting back in the car that was left in the shade is a relief that we will be back in the room soon and don’t have to walk back in this heat, but it’s the best way to get acclimated – at least when you’re not carrying bottled water or other heavy items.

a few comments from the article

a few comments from the article

Caleb takes a nap while I read and listen to the sound of the washing machine. He’s got quite the schedule – duty day, nap day after duty, spend time with wife after work, repeat – with a day off when a weekend and duty day don’t fall on the same day. I wake him at 5:30 so we can meet Mahesh at the villa and forget the pre-contract on the table. He comes to the hotel to pick it up. We cook tortellini for dinner with pasta sauce and stared at the TV mindlessly – it’s going to be the death of my brain…. Then we watch the rest of K-Pax.

Another movie starts and I move to the table to blog. The internet is slow tonight – pictures won’t load to the blog, but I can look at photos and articles on Facebook. I have Humboldt’s Cosmos beside me on the table, but it’s hard to concentrate on that with all the cussing going on in the background. I sit here, reading about social media causing divorce, while Caleb watches TV. And then it’s time for him to sleep. After he turns the TV off I get to read.

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After the Fourth

It seems everyone had a good holiday – food, fireworks, dressing up, boat rides, memorial runs, parades, contests, playing games, taking pictures, listening to concerts, watching soccer, and I’m sure plenty of alcohol was involved.

email to real estate agent

email to real estate agent

I got woken up this morning by Caleb’s alarm going off for the second time. I asked if he was going to get up, so I could go back to sleep without worrying that one of us would get him to work on time. I slept for another 30 minutes, helped walk dogs, and got him to the roundabout at 5:45. Mom texts me when I get back to the room. She’s at the neighbor’s house watching fireworks and I’m about to pass the time on Facebook waiting for 7am so I can eat breakfast.

I thought about going out today, but duty days are great times for me to catch up on the blog. I’m over a month behind and am keeping an eye on events that I would miss blogging for. All the museums and malls and restaurants will still be there when Caleb gets off work tomorrow. I take a shower before walking over to the new villa to meet with Mahesh, the property manager. We walk through the place – there is a blender and separate dryer in the kitchen, we will be given some free water cooler jugs to start with, and the wobbly cabinet will be taken out. The TV wall mount will be taken down and the TV left in the corner – that way we can hear the TV and watch the projector.

part of Floating City, on the way to my future villa

part of Floating City, on the way to my future villa

We are left with a dining room table with four tiny folding stools. I should have sat on one, but if a teenage boy can so can I. Outside we have a shaded concrete porch with wooden stairs that lead down to bricks and rocks for the dogs to pee on and a cheap metal swing with outdoor seat cushions on it. The fence comes with a little gate and the ladder for us to get out of the canal is in our neighbor’s yard – the grass, etc. is private, but the concrete walkway is for public use – swimmers and gardeners.

what my neighbor drives

what my neighbor drives

Upstairs we agree that he will remove the master bed and the two twin beds out of the other room. The master balcony is shaded now which probably means I can enjoy mornings up there and sunsets will be spent on the other side of the house unless we could get an awning installed. There is also a TV stand in each room that will be taken out. We prefer to have things like books, computers, sewing machines, and looms on display in our house – not that we actually know how to use any of them.

what housing doesn't have from ten weeks ago

what housing doesn’t have from ten weeks ago

We have a garden hose outside to water our two plants. There is a tree surrounded by a spindly green ground cover plant in the roundabout and our neighbors have a pool that the birds like and a Lamborghini that I want a ride in. There’s also stairs across the street leading down to the canal, but no ladder nearby. I want to clean up that grassy area – fallen tree and trash – and use it for dogs, though I think it’s more of a hazard than a convenient potty area.

price tag(s) from the mall

price tag(s) from the mall

Mahesh gives me a ride back to the room with a copy of the termination letter. It feels hotter this morning than I expected and he tells me it’s because there is no wind. I agree. I eat the muffin and yogurt I brought back from breakfast this morning and clean up the house so it can be dusted and mopped and have the dirty towels exchanged. With the furnishings it’s hard to tell how dirty it gets in here. I will be sure to appreciate their services while they last.

I was looking at bills the other day and noticed a service charge on our credit card. I tried calling the customer service numbers on the webpage with no luck and quickly emailed them. Caleb forwarded me the response – “You spent a lot of money (more than you realised) and even though you made a large payment, you still owe us so much money that we charged you for it.” Well, guess I can’t argue with that. We need to work on paying our debt down so the charge will be less next month when we’re spending money to move into our new place.

circuit breaker data sheet for my room at The Dragon

circuit breaker data sheet for our room at The Dragon

I put Sparky in the room and let the houseboys in and one tried to say hello to Piggy and she grumbled. I picked her up and put her in with Sparky. I ate my lunchtime PBJ with banana and was editing the May 27th post. Next thing I remember is waking up two hours later in the second bedroom. I took the dogs out, blogged, took them out again, then made dinner. I turned on the TV to give me something to do while waiting for pictures to load and ending up watching a movie about a girlfriend finding the guy that killed her best friend. I’m finding all kinds of ways to get behind today and laundry is almost done, so I will have that to deal with soon. I won’t finish the second post tonight.

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We Missed It

Piggy on my pillow

Piggy on my pillow

We got home last night and sat at the table to unwind. I checked Facebook – a great way to keep in touch with people in the States and with what’s current here. San Diego had a lot of websites for things to do there, but it was overwhelming, not always current, and particular about what places it covered. Here, the websites all have the same information, though sometimes vague, and all those links have Facebook pages so I can be in the know.

On my home page were some pictures of Amy and her son, Nick, enjoying the Fourth of July event on base. There was a watermelon eating competition that he won, a large bounce house, and pictures with the captain of the base with his eyes closed for all the winners – chili and apple pie eating too. Plenty of red, white, and blue and laughing and music. I heard one of the guys on base was supposed to be flying to Germany to enjoy fireworks – something about flaming tires and Molotov cocktails make them a bit more scary here.

So this morning… I roll over and look at my pillow. Piggy has curled herself up there and is busy sleeping. I tap Caleb’s arm furiously to get his attention before she moves. When I realize she’s not going anywhere I sneak out of bed and grab my phone, turn on the flash, and take a picture of a black square. My phone reproduces her image in a bright white light reflected off the place where my head just was. I could go back to sleep at 4:45, but decide to get up and Sparky goes to sleep on the couch – so he can keep an eye on me.

to ease the rolling of the luggage cart

to ease the rolling of the luggage cart

We go for a walk at 7:15am, Sparky and I. We are passed by Caleb and Piggy on our way in. I wait for Caleb to come back from the hotel lobby with our dog that he was showing to some lady, grab a banana and the room key, and walk to breakfast past the men who are filling the corner between our room, the office, and parking lot. Puppies will get a boiled egg and hash brown. There are a lot of things I would like to do today, but they are either closed or off-limits for the holiday.

Don't go that way!

Don’t go that way!

We head towards the Saar Burial Mounds and I turn at a sign for an archeological site. A man in a booth points out the window for us to park in the shade behind his car. He comes out to greet us and asks what nationality we are. I enjoy that he points to himself saying, “Bahrain” and then points to us. The language barrier can be fun as long as no violence (i.e. car accident) is involved. We walk around a site built in 1900 BC and walk up these modern steps for a wide view and realize those pretty looking flower-stickers we saw earlier are now stuck in our shoes and have given us new soles. I take out the large pieces, most of them, and then we leave.

an archeological site

an archeological site

between the walls

between the walls

pretty in a different way now

pretty in a different way now

There is a wall enclosing the mounds about a block or two away, but we see no way of getting in other than climbing over the brick wall, so we drive instead to the A’ali Burial Mounds where we can walk around and peek into some of the holes. I would be using a long prosthetic arm to reach in there as my claustrophobia would get the better of me in the tiny, dark, rock-covered hole in the desert. It feels neat to be among these large piles knowing little of what is buried underneath.

how mounds were made

how mounds were made

Don't take anything and don't leave garbage!

Don’t take anything and don’t leave garbage!

ancient burial mounds in front of modern houses

ancient burial mounds in front of modern houses

I backed into the parking spot so the shade gives us some reprieve from the heat as we can only imagine the water we will be drinking later. We stop at Waqif Central Market on the way home, where I think we may buy some fruit, but when we walk up all the men stand up by their fruit stands – and there are ten of them in each direction. The cherries and mangoes look good, but buying temptation and carrying it around just seems wrong. In the back is the bird (cages) stores – ducks, pigeons, chickens, and doves.

the entrance

the entrance

the produce section

the produce section

the product section

the product section

At home we can guzzle some water down, eat some crackers with guacamole and Port Salut cheese while we cool off and relax. We’ve decided to spend the rest of the day shopping. Caleb needs pants and I’m still in the market for a long sleeve swimsuit. He ends up with five shirts, I get three outfits, we haggle for some onyx mini-goblets, and buy some more body wash. We can smell ourselves and need to wash more often – like every time we come inside covered in sweat.

flip flops I didn't buy

flip flops I didn’t buy

the toilet I didn't use

toilet I didn’t use

the phone that didn't ring

phone I didn’t call

It’s 4:30 when a little girl passes us holding her dad’s hand and complaining slowly, “I want food.” And that just gets us thinking about it. Matters aren’t helped much when we see kids pass us eating cookies and chips and candies because kids don’t have to fast, but get rewarded if they do. Restaurants start setting up and the smell is what gets us. I quickly switch from spending mode to must find food and water now. We went first to the Bahrain Mall – all too expensive for us, and ended up spending most of our time wandering the three levels of the City Centre.

dress I should've bought

dress I should’ve bought

fancy litter box

fancy litter box

cute cart

cute cart

demonitized IQD25 in 2003, now worth $1 or 1,164.5 Iraqi dinar

demonitized IQD25 in 2003, now worth $1 or 1,164.5 Iraqi dinar

We are able to find a quick exit and the parking lot is emptying into the streets so people can get in line at the buffet. It’s 6 o’clock. When we get home our mindset is temporarily changed. We walk the dogs, take a shower, and then I feed the dogs while Caleb makes dinner – a large pot of Ramen with mixed veggies and eggs. We eat that and try to watch The Source Code – a burned DVD – ones that are popularly sold around here, but the movie kept skipping and pausing on its own, so we turned it off. I put on the Simpsons while we put away our new clothes and reorganised our closet. After that we settled down to watch The Juror – a film with a young Alec Baldwin in it.

Caleb's gone surfing, surfing in Bahrain

Caleb’s gone surfing, surfing in Bahrain

on the 2nd floor of City Centre Mall

on the 2nd floor of City Centre Mall

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