Good Morning Ramadan

Good morning, Ramadan!

Good morning, Ramadan!

I set my alarm for 4am and then 15 minutes later I was turning the second one off as I made my way outside. The sky went from black to midnight blue. I went down to the beach in Caleb’s old flip-flops that give his feet blisters. I walked around some feeling the soft sand under my feet after I had traversed over shells and sharp rocks. I sat on a rock near the shore that felt like fossilised oysters and watched the fish swim in the water – the big one pacing back and forth past me eating the little ones that looked like rain drops until they jumped out of the water and away from being food.

a car wrapped in bows, Ramadan Kareem!

a car wrapped in bows, Ramadan Kareem!

The sky continued to brighten, but at 4:48 (when the website said the sun would rise) the sky was still a dark shade of purple on the horizon, with a layer of orange on top of that, and the whitening of the blue clouds higher up and more spaced out now. At 4:51, I saw the tip of the sun break through the clouds and it was minutes before it went from a dark multi-orange ball that I could look at to a bright yellow burning ball of flames that began to hurt my eyes and whiten my photos.

4:46 am

4:46 am

I made it back inside, after walking dogs, by 5:30 and decided to go back to sleep until 7am. If I woke any sooner I would be restless and tired later on. I went to breakfast at 9:30, wondering along the way whether they would be open or not for non-fasting guests as some places offer take-away only so they don’t have to witness you chowing down in public. I can respect that. I had a quick breakfast at ‘our’ table by the window and on the way to the car passed four guys, one using obscene language. I told him to watch his mouth as I climbed in the car and then left for base.

4:57 am

4:57 am

I was enjoying the slow morning, but it was about to get even slower. I had a guy tailgating me in his SUV when traffic stopped on the road. He honked when I braked, so I flashed my hazards for a moment and then stopped. Traffic rolled along and plenty of cars were taking the shoulder. I forgot about the false turn before the right across from the checkered towers, so I cut over just to have to get back over. Luckily a truck was nice enough to let me in. I did use my blinker.

5:02 am

5:02 am

I saw one police car, but nothing else and thought whatever had slowed us down must have been cleared, but as soon as we all got back up to speed we were hitting the brakes again. This time I stayed in my lane until getting over the bridge when I get right to take the exit to Juffair. It was then that I saw the truck with the driver compartment flipped on its face. I slowed down for the 30km/h turn and noticed a white car with a smashed in front. I don’t know what happened here.

a thirsty beach deserves some good fruit drink

a thirsty beach deserves some good fruit drink

There was plenty of parking in the dirt lot, but I had already parked across the street. Coming through security I asked what was on their scanner and the guard showed me – a picture that matched my ID, “Thanks, have a good day.” The first time it has to upload your information and every time after that it’s just recalling.

every water scene deserves a good reflection

every water scene deserves a good reflection

I stood in line for 8 minutes at the CPR/passport office. I was handed our official passports and told to go to the other guy beside him for our CPRs. I handed him our passports (the ones we just got back) along with a credit card. He gave me the card back and a receipt and told me to come back in a week. I suppose it’s a good thing I came in today instead of waiting until tomorrow. We’ll have these taken care of one day sooner. While I was in there, I noticed a paper about visas to the UAE. It’s a big hassle if you want to get it done with the official passport, but as a tourist I will have no problem getting a 30 day visa upon entry to any of their airports – hello Abu Dhabi and Dubai.

5:07 am

5:07 am

I head over to the housing office and there is a sign on the door. Their system is down, so no pre-contract or terminations can be done. Inside I’m told the system might be up at noon and maybe not until tomorrow. I was told I should come on the 30th anyways, so I will just come back then and hope to take care of all of it in one day, but if not, I still have to take Caleb back and forth and can pass my time on base each day while I wait.

attendant creating dust art in the dirt lot while he waits

attendant creating dust art in the dirt lot while he waits

It’s then that I remember I forgot the rental agreement for the car so that I could get a copy made. Leaving base I pass a couple – a man in ankle-length pants and long sleeve shirt, and a woman in traditional dress. The guard looks at her eyes and then at her ID and says, “No”. I don’t know why but they were turned around as I pass a lady flaunting a huge bottle of icy water.

It's official! I can live in Bahrain for a year.

It’s official! I can live in Bahrain for a year.

I make Ramen with jalapeño stuffed black olives (don’t like them), sun-dried tomatoes, and Gouda. I take the dogs to the beach and the water is hot, having baked on the dark rocks in the sun all afternoon, making it less tolerable to be outside, so I walk them in the grass to dry their feet and then get changed so I can swim in the pool. I have it to myself, but after 15 minutes of swimming laps I’m already feeling sluggish.

where I walk the dogs

where I walk the dogs

I sit down to finish another post and end up on Skype with Uncle Ed for a while. The quality of the video was great – until I tried to show him the den. We seem to lose signal there when trying to show our dads around too. Ed told me I should label my photos so that my readers know where they were taken, especially when they don’t line up with the text. I totally agree, so I set to doing that and then got sidetracked by a TED Talk from Beau Lotto: Optical illusions show how we see (or possibly what we’re missing). I talked to Caleb a while on duty while on watch at 11:30… it’s late and I need to go to bed.

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First Underway Kind of Day

empty coffee cup

empty coffee cup

Caleb wakes me at 4:45 and three minutes later we are in the car on our way to base when I notice the biggest and brightest sun sitting over the water and want to stare at it while driving. I get Caleb to work and the next thing I remember is waking up in time for breakfast. Caleb got picked up late because the duty van got there early.

I have cereal in the room and sit down to get posting, but end up going through Caleb’s photos and posting 24 of them to Facebook while drinking a cup of NesCafe coffee. I have a late lunch of Ramen with a carrot, green beans, and balsamic. I would’ve had some Rotel in it but didn’t feel like bothering room service and then waiting on them for a can opener – the one in their kitchen. For dessert – some coconut chocolate and minty gum. I finish a post while eating Gouda with pepper Triscuits.

full snack cup

full snack cup

By the time I looked up the sunrise/sunset schedule it was already getting dark out. I have plans to wake in the morning and watch the sun brighten the day, do some posting, and then watch the sun lower in the sky. Then the next time I watch can be after looking up the best place to do so for both on the island. This is the quietest it has been since we moved in. I can hear the neighbour’s TV through the wall.

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Friday Before Ramadan

Good morning!

Good morning!

I woke up with Sparky’s face in mine. Then he stared off into the distance for a while before getting off the blanket so I could get up and take him out. The two guys in the dining room with me this morning wasted lots of food – pita, muffin, watermelon, cucumber slices. I brought back some bread for me and a boiled egg for the dogs.

taxi driver outdoor lounge near base

taxi driver outdoor lounge near base

I expected a text by seven but didn’t get one until 8:30 when Caleb was getting off work after fixing an issue with the ASW (auxiliary sea water) pump. I picked him up at the roundabout and we headed to American Alley full of fast food, rental cars, and massage parlors. We stopped in ShakeAway – the world’s largest milkshake bar, and ordered a Sooma – frozen yogurt with blueberries, caramel, and crushed hazelnuts. We walked to the end of the street and back and then decided on the Royal Camel Farm in Janabiyah.

Princess Al Jawhara Al-Ibrahim Centre for Molecular Medicine, Genetics & Inherited Disorders

Princess Al Jawhara Al-Ibrahim Centre for Molecular Medicine, Genetics & Inherited Disorders

Admission is free and the rules are simple: keep a safe distance, and don’t hit or feed the camels. There are a hundred or more of them – some tied under shaded awnings, some tied in the sun, and others free to roam between the two in a large pen. We make our way around and as we near some they stand up and extend their necks towards us. We can’t not pet them. Caleb finishes his water and is feeling tired and hot. We agree to go home and let the dogs out – tight leashed near the two, also leashed dogs, playing in the shade.

just standing around

just standing around

We cool down and eat Ramen while watching the last half of Land of the Lost and the last half of Saving Private Ryan before deciding to go to dinner at Muju. Caleb hangs the laundry and we are out the door. I get a baby Guinness shot, a Scarlett O’Hara, a Yellow Bird, and a Bubbles and Blue to prep for the drinking in public I won’t be doing for the next month. Caleb gets tea, orders French fries with green peppercorn sauce (that tastes like beef), and rainbow and fried California sushi rolls.

a modelling camel

a modelling camel

Upon walking to the outside deck I’m invited to sit with the five guys already a few drinks in. We sit down and at some point I applaud their singing and noise. So one guy tells me that he’s just been married to a guy in traditional dress and then shows me a picture of himself in a cute outfit with patent leather high-heel boots on. We overhear some of their conversation – one about a guy having a friend bringing hookers to his house instead of taking them to a hotel, another about the Muppets show selling out, and one trying to imitate an English accent. I couldn’t help but giggle.

food delivery to our left

food delivery to our left

and the cool camels to our right

and the cool camels to our right

After dinner we decide to go swimming. I put on Caleb’s swim trunks and white shirt and a sports bra underneath. We head for the ocean first. Warm, but with sharp rocks. We make our way to the trampoline when the alcohol effect kicks in and I don’t want to be bounced around. We go to the pool and I’m having fun doing laps and splashing Caleb with water until one of the houseboys come to ask what room we are in and when we tell him he lets us know that the pool closed two hours ago.

I want one!

I want one!

We walk around the block to dry off – hiding behind wooden makeshift walls for construction zones to take our clothes off and wring them out. Caleb says he knew about the pool curfew, but before getting out I asked what time it opens and was told it’s open from 7am to 7pm. We should probably take the dogs out before going to sleep but they’re already in bed and we have to be up early in the morning so Caleb can get underway and I can run errands and maybe go to the gym. We are tired of being on lazy vacation status.

Caleb captures the moment before the attempted kiss

Caleb captures the moment before the attempted kiss

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First Duty Day in Bahrain

part of a things to see/do list in Bahrain on a Facebook group page

part of a things to see/do list on Bahrain Family Group Facebook page

Took Caleb to work by 5:45 and made it home without accident – not that much traffic so early. Speaking of, I get a text from Uncle Ed. We got a notification in the mail of two toll road violations within seven minutes of each other. I’m prepared to pay the $200 fine, but once online with the info he gave me, the website says I only owe $5.75 – this time. We had tried logging on with our phones, but once we left California, those thoughts left our minds.

I talked with Dad and Caroline on Facebook until 7:30 when I got hungry and went to breakfast. I had a pancake with syrup, apple-stuffed croissant, three pieces of watermelon, a plain muffin, some peach-apricot yogurt, and a cup of coffee with milk in it. I took two slices of bread for a PBJ later. We bought a loaf and forgot to refrigerate it and it molded before we could open the bag.

The dogs poo’d before Caleb went to work and again when I walked them after breakfast. They are back to a healthy diet – maybe too much food, but I can’t wait till their bigger water bowl arrives so I don’t have to keep seeing an empty bowl. I do fill it after walks and at meal time so they are only being dehydrated in the shaded air-conditioned room between then.

orange protective coat on a Chevy in The Dragon Hotel parking lot

orange protective coat on a Chevy in The Dragon Hotel parking lot

I got a reminder about the cross-stitch and crochet event at the library happening at 10am. I thought about going (they supply everything), but then I figured I would be safer here – my houseboy agrees. He lives here and only leaves to go to church and the grocery store. I’m not that paranoid of Molotov cocktails and flaming tires, and I was hoping to use it as an opportunity to meet people, but they probably live close to base and I’ve had excellent luck with meeting my neighbors so far. If I feel like getting out I can just walk around my new neighborhood.

I got a message from Caleb letting me know his new ship’s email that he will have for the next two years. I talk to the folks in Arizona again before they go to bed. Caroline tells me she’s looking forward to a post to read at lunch. I’m quick to knock out three before she wakes. I was getting ingredients out to make some dinner – Ramen, sun-dried tomatoes, and baby asparagus that I unwrapped even though I saw how gray and squishy it was – hoping to save some (like half of the cherries yesterday), but it was a lost cause and I took it to the trash can outside.

I watched a movie about a father who worked too hard and was losing his wife until an escaped convict asked for his lawyer services to prove her innocence. Then I moved to the dining table to finish another post with VH1 on in the background for noise and company while I wait for pictures to upload. I had some coconut Ritter Sport and talked to Caleb on Facebook when he went on watch at 10pm. As soon as I hit publish I’m making preparations for bed.

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Another Week, Another Accident

a car in the dirt lot by base

a car in the dirt lot by base

When I picked up Caleb yesterday he told me about the confrontation with Senior about him being late, so he was determined to get there early this morning. When I woke he should’ve gotten started sooner, but we were out the door by 5:30. I dropped him off and when I came back from walking the dogs I met a guy at the top of the stairs that’s been in the navy for 22 years. His wife retired as a senior chief and this is his sixth tour out here – he translates Arabic.

We talked about his kids and their childhood dog and about how much this island has changed in 20 years until his ride came. He doesn’t have a car yet, only been here a few days, and is waiting on his golf clubs to arrive and possibly his wife who has been over here four times before. Maybe I should’ve asked for a name or a command, but maybe I’ll see him around and if his wife ever shows I can invite her to the wife club.

At breakfast, either school is out or there is a traveling team. I’m eating in a room full of adolescent boys and luckily only one of them forgot to put a shirt on this morning – ok around the pool, not what I want hanging over my bread and fruit. They’re out of sausage so I grab an egg each for the dogs. I check my email and it tells me I should’ve called Linda, the current resident of our future place, to schedule a move-in date. I shouldn’t have to do that, but I figure I will go by there and see what’s up.

second damaged rental car

second damaged rental car

I left the house at 8:22 and almost changed my mind halfway there thinking I could just wait on an email or a proper phone number to call, but started to enjoy the walk with the breeze. I turned down the street and passed by a house when a lady came out from behind her car and complimented me on how cute I look (in my blue/green/white dress with little white shirt over it) and from there the conversation carried for twenty minutes. Kim invited me to her water aerobics class and looks forward to seeing me around. She’s lived here for six years and loves it. I think we will get along fine.

I ring the bell at Linda’s and hear her poodles inside. She opens the door and invites me in. Their shoes were taken off outside but I remove mine promptly inside the door. I’m greeted by three shades of brown fuzz. We sit on the couch for a bit, then move outside so I can see the porch that they built and talk about the neighbors (one used to have a lion cub), then move back inside and meet the boys when they wake up around 11am. They just finished school and are enjoying the break. It’s sad that she’s leaving. We get along so well. They spent three years in Japan and two years here and know there will be a culture shock when they return to the States next week.

We lost track of the time talking about dogs, food, family, culture, and kindness. I drink .75 litres of water and am offered a ride home in the heat at noon, but enjoy the walk back. I might meet someone else. I have to hold my hat on in the wind and can feel the sun on my unsunscreened arms. I have time to eat some lunch (saving the leftovers for dinner tonight), walk and feed dogs, and hang up laundry from two days ago before I head to base to go by housing and then pick up Caleb.

international Lays

international Lay’s at Alosra

At housing they tell me that I need the other form back first and that I can come in on the 30th for the other one. Caleb hasn’t texted me yet and the lady set me up for a 3:30 appt. to meet Muhammad at the Dragon to get the paper back. I was in the turn lane by the Grand Mosque and stopped when I wasn’t sure if I would be out of the intersection before the light turned red. I got hit by a Range Rover. I jumped out, took a picture of the license plate, and then talked with the lady. She was nicely dressed and the damage didn’t look too bad, but I told her I had to report it since it was a rental.

She told me to turn right across lanes of traffic (that were stopped) and then I followed her erratic driving to the police station near the Exhibition Center. She explained everything, signed the paper, then we went and looked at the damage, came back in, paid BD6 and I was free to go. She said she tried to stop but her high heel slipped off the brake. The officer, seeing my record, told me that I could get a replacement rental, continue to drive this one, or take a taxi next time.

She hit me at 2:30 and I had already texted Muhammad to let him know I was going to be late. I was able to find my way to base after a few wrong turns – giving me a small tour of a new part of the island. Lucky for me that this place is so easy to recognize. At an intersection I looked to my left and the older sister pulled the younger one from the window and they thought this was hilarious. We kept this up until the light changed – three girls and their dad and me – and then the two lanes turn into one on the turn without warning, but it was all good and they waved to me as I took an exit.

neat video, thanks NPR!

neat video, thanks NPR!

By this time Caleb had gotten my messages and shared the news with the guys. I got to base and made copies of the police report at the Inn & Suites that I would find out I don’t need since Caleb’s chain of command can’t read them. I waited in the shade outside base for him and then we went to the rental place. Shakeel recognised us and the green sheet of paper I was holding. He saw the damage and was glad to hear me say that we would continue driving it as he didn’t have the other car back from the shop yet. Shakeel let us know that he owes us BD12 and then we left.

We stop by Alosra for q-tips and milk and leave with chocolate bars and bags of nuts too. I bought the doggies some chew bones and dinner for us was the leftovers I saved. We walk the dogs and a guy from the front desk gives us our pre-contract. I thank Muhammad later for still coming through even though I couldn’t make it. Now I can return it on the 30th when I fill out the new one.

We had cherries for dessert and watched part of one of the Saw series before Caleb went to bed. I will stay up reading articles and watching YouTube videos before fighting sleep myself. Today was an adventure, just as the last two weeks have been. Caleb has duty tomorrow so it will be my first night alone here. Ramadan should start Saturday, then he gets underway for three or four days – which in safe news will have me off the roads.

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