Multi-Soap Inspiration

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driving into Juffair

Today’s post is inspired by the ten soaps/scrubs in my shower – the one I took after getting the living room light bulbs replaced, working out in the gym for an hour, helping myself to another piece of bread, messaging my husband at work, tending to my blind dogs, and mopping the floor again.

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stroopwafels and rooibos tea

It was in this moment I realised how focused I’ve been on writing about my travels to other countries and forgetting that my readers have no idea how Bahrain has been for me over the last year – what soap I use, what staples are now in our fridge and cabinets, that we have the a/c running all year, how the car is doing with the fact that I had two accidents within two weeks of moving here, the health status of my ageing dogs, how my husband is getting along after making chief and having knee surgery, and what I do to pass the time.

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looking south from Juffair

I’ve got lotion on my shelf that I’ve had since we lived in Virginia and a collection of smells gifted to me throughout the US and in Bahrain. My soaps consist of mother-in-law homemade, pastes from Africa, scrubs from Jordan, scents I found in Bahrain, and the rest are probably made in China. Our toilet system now consists of a water hose and a giant roll of paper to wipe away the wetness. We have separate water heaters for the two showers and the kitchen and I’m sure to use all the hot water in each.

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Tree of Life and Princess

Our fridge is full of beers, soda, juice, and cheese – leftovers from get-togethers that are waiting to be used. The cabinet – chocolates from travels, lentils from California, five varieties of peanut butter, and Caleb’s baking supplies. The freezer – full of chicken from an overnight in the desert spent eating meat and bread; dancing on the fire and with each other; and playing cards and guitar while waiting for the sun to rise.

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art in Adliya

The air conditioner runs all year between 21 and 24 degrees Celsius. I’ve gotten better at metric measurements as the States have chosen to maintain a difference between the rest of the world in a statement of their power – or something American like that I’m sure. The temperature outside varies from 13 to 50, which might not sound like much in Celsius but in Fahrenheit is 55 to 122.

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good morning, Bahrain

The car had recalls sent out and I took it to the local dealership to be told the first time that they deal with Bahrain/Japan Mazda, not America. The Ford dealership would’ve worked on it for me if it weren’t for stepping on logo toes… I have to understand. I go back with a friend that speaks Arabic, only to yell at the guy across the desk for not listening. I leave the car over their week-long holiday and return refreshed to wait in an office for one of the top bosses who will finally get my car in the shop and charge me accordingly.

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Said, Sherif, Ali, Ozzy, and Farid with our 100 wings

The car was losing power due to the throttle body malfunctioning. I was able to drive off the lot, having paid for shipping, and the car has worked fine since. Speaking of, it’s actually 400 miles past due for an oil change which I get done at shops that also do car washes – including steaming the engine to get the sand out. This should also be a heads up to anyone looking to ship their car overseas. Be ready to wait on parts and deal with difficult people who don’t want to do their job.

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Sparky at the vet’s mercy

Piggy is still blind, equally so in both eyes since arrival in Bahrain. I discovered a lump in her belly about two weeks ago, but I’m hesitant to have the vet cut it out as it’s either nothing to worry about or cancer which could give her six months to live – and I’m not paying for chemo. About two months ago, Sparky started running into things and drinking more. He is now blind with hypothyroidism and we are dealing with a swollen liver with medication and prescription food at the moment. I will not let the vet open my dogs up after seeing him take blood from Sparky’s arm and the razor burn he suffered near his man bits after being shaved for an ultrasound.

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meat, music, meeting – desert life

Caleb got pinned for Chief in September and had to stand there on sore knees during the four-hour ceremony. I went for a haircut and returned in time to wear his new combination cover (fancy name for big hat) through the mini-store on base. He finally had knee surgery in October after waiting nine months and was given a few weeks off work. His hair returned gradually to his leg as he slowly took the stairs and eventually climbed back onto his bike.

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other tent sites at sunrise

I spend my nights in hot tubs; eating Eritrean at Tango 338, Thai at Honey’s and Baan Saeng, Korean at Arirang and Da Rae Jung, BBQ, Mexican at Señor Pacos and Casa Mexicana, Bahraini on Shawarma Alley and House of Baleleet, American at Big TX BBQ – Waffle House, homemade at Said’s and Farid’s, fast food at Burger Town and Jan Burger, Indian at Vrindavan and Desi Spice, and pizza from Olivoli’s and Pizza by Mr. Slice; sharing stories by the poolside; making new friends at Internations; walking around at art events in Adliya; dancing in the club and especially on the campfire to keep warm while waiting for sunrise in the desert.

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our pani puri man at Desi Spice

I’m the last to leave: the gym before closing; Lulu’s grocery store for cheesecake ingredients; and Tony Luke’s with 100 wings and five friends to help me eat them. I get to watch a meteor shower on the beach; wear deer antlers and a santa hat on different occasions; get my friends to cook for me at their homes and then invite them to mine; and the chance to master a hands-free Segway. I support my friends: the musician, salesman, magician, and fighter where they do their best work. I attended a Christmas-themed birthday party at Señor Pacos; was the only girl at my accidental going away party (just taking a vacation to London) with ten friends; and enjoying a curious night in a hotel and learning about Tinder.

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sidewalk on the bridge

The days are more simple and used to take Caleb to work and return to the house to cuddle,  play with, walk and feed dogs. Sometimes being up early involves stopping at Dome for a caramel nut crunch espreski – coffee, ice cream, and candy – a $5 meal. This will give me the energy to join friends for lunch, take Sparky to the vet, run errands on base, and take trips to the Saudi Causeway or the Tree of Life. The rest of the time is spent shopping, for food mostly, and planning for the night’s events. Then it’s wash, sleep, repeat.

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We’ll Be in London Overnight

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The night of departure has come and I’ve not done much to plan for it. I bought a 3-day city pass for London (London Pass with Oyster Card for travel) that will get us into the touristy things, even some that are already free, and some that will be closed on the first. I got a rental car outside the city so that I can practice driving on the ‘wrong’ side of the road while seeing national parks, historic hillsides, and Stonehenge – Caleb’s bucket list item. I tried getting a place through Airbnb, but that went sour quickly and instead of saving half on the 3 nights in London and helping the guy with rent, we ended up paying double, and especially more for NYE night.

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We go for Pizza Empress at 7:30, say bye to puppies at 8:30, are checked in at the airport by 9:30, and through security at 10:30 for an 11:30 departure. I’ve flown with Sparky under the seat in front of me. Tonight we fly with a falcon in the plane. I think next time it will be something that swims. We land in Doha where we’ll transfer to the plane, complete with stairs to another floor, that will take us to Heathrow Airport, the third busiest in the world, while we try to sleep in a cramped economy space. I wake up for a snack at 3am, to pee at 6am, and breakfast at 7am (all Bahrain time) as we pass an in-flight puke splatter on our way off the plane at 7am London time.

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A Day of Naps

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I walk the dogs at 1:20am while Caleb goes to bed for a nap before work where he is regretting coming with me and staying out late. He’s been sick and needs rest.

Caleb had taken the duty van – stopping by the house en route to check on me – because he wanted a ride at 10:30am for a ceremony from noon to 1:30pm, but I wasn’t home.

I take the dogs to their vet appointment at 3pm. Sparky’s teeth are good, his retinas are stretched with age and his thyroid is fine. The doctor took blood to check for Cushing’s.

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Piggy’s teeth are bad and she needs the lump in her belly cut out of her to know what it is… well, shit. I paid the 45bd ($122.85) and left with an appointment for December 10th.

I take a two-hour nap at the house before going to pick up Princess at City Centre at 7pm for InterNations at Jim’s. There were lots of people, lots of booze, and little snacks. I had a vodka drink at her hotel prior and not enough to eat. I didn’t leave there till midnight. 

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When You Don’t Smoke

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Caleb joins me for a nap when he gets home at 5pm and I leave to pick up Princess from Fraser Suites in the Diplomatic Area and take her to base for booze. 

Caleb wakes up and I pick him up to join us. This works out so he can keep her company while I shop for Wild Turkey, alcoholic eggnog, and cran-apple Pinnacle on base at 6:30pm. We go to Al Jazeera so she can go shopping while we get iced coffee in Costa. We drive to where she usually stays in Manama to pick up a bottle of tequila before going back to her room at 8:30pm.

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We sit on our phones for 30 minutes and then Princess FaceTimes with her brother while he’s at the hospital visiting their 71-year-old mom – and they sing her happy birthday; it’s sweet. The girls change and head up to the sauna since the pool is closed. It’s not on but still warm and we sit until we’re sweaty. We were going to go downstairs but I noticed the rain showers and fancy soap – so in we went and off came the swimsuits. 

We go back down to her room — her in a robe, me in a towel, and start to watch an episode about a Marvel character with superior strength. Ali shows up at 11pm and orders fried chicken from Pollo Campero because they don’t have grilled. We watch an episode of High Castle before it’s 1am and Caleb is ready to sleep.

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Pink Drinks in Turkey

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morning view, Sea of Marmara

I’m up before 7:30am, as is the sun that’s on the other side of buildings and trees, and not to be seen till I go upstairs to the breakfast rooftop patio. I take in the skyscrapers on the horizon, the ships in the strait, the satellite dishes and birds, and the fake plant next to the woman wiping rain off chairs and tables. I’m sure breakfast will be a feast, and something worthy of writing about, but it won’t be from this hotel.

I walk down the street, more aware of doors, not blocked by tourists and rain, smiling with their morning photographic confidence. I walk into the bakery – Evin Unlu Mamulleri Kadirga, between my hotel and rental car – and point to a Turkish bun with sesame seeds, a flaky stuffed pastry, and a rolled potato pan borek – all different textures, shapes and fillings. This is where I fall in love with fresh squeezed pomegranate juice with no additives in my 9 oz cup.

Valens Aqueduct

Valens Aqueduct

I thought I’d get up early and sightsee, and that’s what I’m doing in standstill traffic where men are between the lanes selling water and simit. I pass under the Valens “Grey Falcon” Aqueduct, built in 368, which is a grandeur example of Roman architecture – and my ability to get lost. It will take me another 50 minutes to get on the Galata Bridge. I will pass the Welcome to Asia sign at 9:34 am (that I was not expecting) after driving over the Bosphorus Bridge, then past the airport I arrived at, and through a few tunnels – one being Hereke Tüneli, built 1977-1980.

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where mowers meet for lunch

On the other side of these tunnels is the Sea of Marmara complete with mountains, trees, clouds, curvy roads, and a reflection of the sunlight on the water. I reach the city limits of Sakarya at 10:45 am and notice when I go over 50 km/h that the electronic speed limit sign in Adapazari turns into a sad face – which of course makes me want to go fast, but also the need for a toilet has me urgently looking for the Deprem Kültür Müzesi and a place to park two blocks away instead of behind the Earthquake Culture Museum.

E80, past Hereke Tüneli

E80, past Hereke Tüneli

I try to maintain my composure with the curator and the guard as I look at the entrance fee board and ask for the bayan’s toilet. I’m pointed in the right direction and am rubbing all over the wall with my hand trying to find the light switch in the dark, offering almost simultaneous relief. Now I’m free to explore the images of the damages from six earthquakes caused between 1902 and 1999 – when 20 countries offered money, blankets, tents, and search & rescue teams to assist the 500,000 homeless and 50,000 injured.

E80, past Korutepe Tüneli

E80, past Korutepe Tüneli

There’s a display of the uniform worn by civil defence, tools used, a typical kitchen, and a regions map that I can’t read. The curator finds me reading the only two English paragraphs in the museum and he seems happy that I’m here. I thank him and help myself to the exit and enjoy a bit of the city before getting back on the highway. I thought I had other plans here, but the map is now showing them as hours in different directions – something I don’t have time for.

Red Crescent tents for the most damaged areas of earthquake disaster

Red Crescent tents for the most damaged areas of earthquake disaster

I walk into a cold store just to see the cigarette and alcohol on display – something I’m not used to in Bahrain. It’s not that the country doesn’t sell smokes, but they don’t have Winston’s advertising that ‘smoking slows blood flow and causes sexual impotence’ or Camel’s warning that ‘smoking highly addictive, do not start’ with a picture of a man behind cigarette bars – like prison, but the price is only $2.82 a pack. I’ll spend 35 cents on two small waters and walk back to the car. I notice the speed radar sign above the road go from a red frown face, to a red 51, to a green 50.

E90, near Gülbağı, Balâ, Ankara Province

E90, near Gülbağı, Balâ, Ankara Province

An hour of tree covered hills brings me to Düzce for three bananas, cheese bread, and an unasked-for car wash totalling 11.5 lira. I get petrol in Bolu with more snacks and a can of coffee as I continue to drive in the rain. I’m enjoying the change in weather and the dark clouds it brings. Sometimes boiling hot, to the point of cooked clouds and bugs, can leave those things un-photographed. This country has a wealth of things to point my lens at, and mosques and the Turkish flag are not sparse.

E90, near Karandere

E90, near Karandere

I stop in Ankara at 3pm and get Nescafe when I’m expecting Turkish coffee. I try to inquire and the cook brings out more Coffee Mate that I decline – I’ll drink what I have, along with the juice box of vişne suyu (cherry juice). The goal is that this caffeine will get me to Cappadocia; past the mountain turns, the splits in the road, and the stretch of fields. Going between 50 and 150km/h will take me past houses old and new, construction and cemeteries, and roadside tent parties. Going between towns I notice their simple signs – town name (entering), town name with red line angled across it (leaving).

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petrol receipt vs key fob

Another bayan WC, another lira. Another petrol station, another tiny receipt, but what I wasn’t expecting was the free box of tissues telling me to, “Hayirli yolculuklar,” Have a good journey, and the car cloth that came with it. The sun will win my attention for a 45 minute stretch. There are tractors, and signs, and a falcon water fountain (perhaps a mistranslation), but I won’t stop again till I see the sign for Organik Sarap.

sunset near Gülşehir

sunset near Gülşehir

I turn down a dirt drive and park in front of the barn where two men were enjoying the last of the sunlight. One leaves as I enter and admire all the large wood holding all the glass bottles. I ask for the WC and it’s a good thing that I always carry my phone – I will need the flashlight function. We go behind the plastic wall, down the long unlit hall, and he directs me behind a door. I don’t know whether to feel more scared or relieved when I hear him walking away.

cave in Gülşehir

cave in Gülşehir

When I return, he has gladly poured me at least six glasses of wine so that I may try each bottle he has. I thank him for his kindness but have to decline to drink them all. He goes to his laptop and I hear the lyrics from Kenny Rogers’ “The Gambler.” I have to laugh inside, but he did pick the right language. Unfortunately, neither of us is able to pick out the word English from the list of words that start with E and I on Google translate; it’s İngilizce. I appreciate the friendship, even with the language barrier, but I show myself out when he points to the tent in the corner. 

I have a room reserved at Dora Cave Hotel in Göreme. I’m grateful I don’t let others’ sour opinions of a place influence my decision. I was kindly greeted, offered a seat and some tea, and conversation while waiting on dinner – on the house. I was served beans, rice, grapes, and bread; then shown upstairs to my room to spend the evening in a hot shower, staring at the caves in the distance, and relaxing on one of the two beds.

town of Gülşehir

town of Gülşehir

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