The Official Blues Brothers Revue – Review

I love hanging out with Talidra and learning about her and what her friends are learning. When I first met her she was in second grade. At that age I had coloring books, pet rocks, and played fire monster on the playground. Her class has computers, a gym class, and goes to the symphony. Now she is in fourth grade with dating drama, smart phones, and standardized tests. For whatever reasons – the Big Company told me that I was only able to visit Talidra at school – statistics of drivers under 25, so I never thought of asking if that could change. I didn’t have to drive; I just wanted to show Talidra so much.

The year before, I missed the RSVP date to the Bigs Appreciation Event and luckily I didn’t miss it this year. Stephen, a board member, seeing my love for children and hearing of my long commitment felt that my little and I deserved a special event to celebrate the time we had shared. He bought us tickets to the Blues Brothers show. I had seen the movie once and have known people to reference the outfits or car from the show. I hoped that at Talidra’s age – no idea of the show, that she would be able to recognize some of the music.

Times Union Center for the Performing Arts: Moran Theater

I picked the tickets up on Tuesday and Talidra called her mom on Wednesday to ask permission. We were set to meet on Thursday at 6:30pm; the show to start at 7:30pm. It was so nice to get away from school where we both are distracted by math problems and hard spelling words. Being in the car we were free to talk about anything and talk we did. I parked us three blocks from the theater to save $10 and then bought us each a $3 water before finding our seats. Talidra mentions that people shouldn’t be drinking ‘alcohol’ at the theater (more of a bar thing I guess) and I agree because I don’t like to miss the show to pee.

Talidra is taller than me and the lady sitting beside her must’ve believed her older, asking her questions that I tried to hear so that I could answer. Talidra’s neighbor also decided to sing along to all the songs. We happened to be two of the ten people there without gray hair. At 8:20pm there was a 15 minute intermission and I asked Talidra what she thought of the show – two guys singing, a six-man band, and one girl dancing in a shiny dress. She thought it was ok and, “Ooh, I want coffee.” We got some and hers was gone long before mine began to cool.

I noticed it was 9:30pm and didn’t know when the show would end, but Talidra was getting into the clapping along and standing with hands raised in the air. The show finished before 10pm and when I asked Talidra what she thought after the show she said it was better than any play she attended with school. I returned her safely to her mom that tells me I will be hard to replace. I want to tear up, but I remember broccoli farts mentioned in the show – which by the way was great, and smile as they drive away.

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A Summary of Pythons, Packing, and Pictures

Since my keyboard went anti-type on me I made a list of things to write about and was going to take pictures too; the list was long and the pictures lacking. Caleb took me to work to ‘show me off’ (meaning: pile an 8-ft python and her four 3-ft babies on me and watch a guy at work cringe). I told the guy to get revenge on Caleb he could bring in spiders, but at the mention of such the guy almost left in fear.

(*Note: the pythons are real and are well-loved pets of a co-worker)

The next day I was making sure the dogs were washed, trimmed, and medicated (against heart worm and fleas) before I set out on the road. Sparky prefers his teeth to be messed with and Piggy’s nails are easier to clean than her teeth, but she hates both processes. Sparky flinched while I was clipping his nail and it started to bleed. I held some toilet paper on it for a while and then let him go. An hour later he comes up to me and his nail is bleeding. I rush him to the doctor, “He is bleeding to death!” They put some styptic powder on it (has pain reliever in it) and told me next time to use flour – thanks. Wait, is there going to be a next time?

Time to get rid of things we will not be keeping: plants – because there will not be space or safety to transport them; couch – because ‘it likes Florida weather;’ shower curtain – because it’s becoming holier than thou; broken dresser – seems to be a theme with us. Our neighbor will assume that since our plants are gone we have moved and other residents will introduce their stray cats to us and then notice we are leaving. We receive a good-bye note from the apartment office, not directed at us, but at the building with disturbing amounts of trash and dog shit. So excited to be leaving!

I still need to make a post about what I will be taking with me, but a free night at the Cummer Museum and Gardens sounds like a better idea and something Caleb can enjoy too. Some installations are the same and soothing in their own way, but we are in luck tonight as there is an Asian exhibit and store; works from Monet, Renoir, and Munch; and a fun crowd in the hands-on section. I get excited at familiar works by Gustave De Jonghe and Joseph DeCamp, but bummed that the gardens are closed – it is dark out though and time to go home.

"One day I am satisfied, the next day I find it all bad, still I hope that someday I will find some of them good..." - Monet

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Eight Nights Left

I decided to change my start day to February 29th; it only comes once every four years. I’ve tried to pack, but have to remember that’s the mover’s job – otherwise I could be held responsible for broken items. They did great with our last move; we only lost three glasses. I’m busy trying to make sure everything is taken care of before I leave. I don’t want to feel guilty if there are any mistakes; such as attempting to forward our mail to a stranger’s house because of a one number difference in the address.

I’m excited for this trip that might bring rain, lots of wind, maybe a flat tire, some rude drivers, suicidal squirrels, and bumpy roads. It will also bring sunshine, donuts, animals, plants, parks, smooth roads, and camping under the stars. For a week I will not have to worry about walking dogs, filling the car with lots of gas, or paying bills. I will have to worry about my dogs missing me, my husband not eating, and me trying to eat enough food.

I’ve got a list of what goes where – whether on me, the bike, or in my panniers. That will be a post before I go. I will be keeping track of what I bring, what I use, how much it weighs and other such adventure details to help those that are looking for a handy guide to get them started. Weather is a big factor in gear, then there is life’s necessity of water, some calories to keep me going, tools to keep me going faster, and cameras and notebooks to help me remember the details.

I haven’t been on here in a while. It’s not because I don’t miss it; it’s because I miss my fast internet speed. I don’t know how I ever used to manage doing college homework on this slow, small screen. This helps me realize why it’s good to grow up with less and then experience the nicer things in life. If a spoiled rich kid ever had to digress it would break their spirit. Caleb got a new pair of shoes and was reminded that shoes are supposed to come with padding – no more used shoes for that guy!

With my time away and Caleb working every four nights, I’ve had some time to do more reading. Last month’s theme was animals, travel, and outdoors. This month’s theme is sex, violence, court rooms, and World War II. I also read some childhood favorites – James and the Giant Peach, Matilda, and The Witches. February included a science-fictiony story By the Light of the Moon by Dean Koontz. People are injected with weird goo and gain special powers.

Double Vision; a story about quantum physics, two girls after the same guy, and the government out to get the little guy. Cold Mountain; a soldier skipping out on the war to get back to his lady. The Great Gatsby; a rich man throws parties to get back the love of his life and people die. The Count of Monte Cristo (Abridged Edition); a guy loses his future wife and job, suffers a lot, and then comes back for revenge. Snow Falling on Cedars; a story that taught me more about WWII from the Japanese-American point of view. The Predators; a boy’s parents die and he gets drafted into the army, lots of sex, mafia, and loss. Dead Ringer; a lawyer with a twin sister that tries to ruin her life.

More packing, more reading, more donating, more selling, more buying. The movers want everything off the walls – pictures, curtains, and everything taken down off high shelves. Then you need to have all clothes, toys, books, and dishes somewhat in their own space for more efficient packing. We will donate the old sneakers with no padding, the tire chains that don’t fit the new car (another future post), and recycle the CDs we can’t sell, and sell the college books Caleb didn’t get the chance to use.

The hardest part for me is trying to use what food we have in the cabinets, fridge, freezer without buying too many things to go with what we have. Caleb would be fine with bringing a mini-fridge, but as much as we can survive on trail mix while on the road every few days we love a heated meal. The other part is sleep. As exciting events approach my mind seems to have the incapacity to rest for too long.

I anticipate a night with stars and crickets, maybe some frogs. A night with no traffic and sirens, no cell phones or alarm clocks, no barking or neighbors screaming, no street lights or water sprinklers, and hopefully no mosquitoes – I just can’t sleep with them buzzing around the tent and making me step outside into a full-on attack of all the local fire ant hills. I will enjoy days without depressing news, demanding media, and deprived status updates.

If you have any questions about the who, what, when, where, or why of my upcoming trip just let me know and I will answer it in my next post; though it’s usually good to wait until after, probably, but there may be something I don’t think of and it will be a few weeks after Feb. 29 before I am back on the Web. And while I’m gone I hope all my fellow readers are finding the adventure in their lives, as usual. I look forward to catching up soon.

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A 2011 Mazda Tribute for Valentine’s Day

for lack of a better auto picture

Caleb has been in the mood for a new car since the day we bought our Hyundai. He wants vintage models, an off-road jeep, a truck with a large tow bed, a hybrid with great gas mileage, and a sports car. I was able to delay the process a few years and finally folded. Our car was over 100,000 miles and paid off – seems to be doomed soon to me. He searched online for a few days and made his top choices. Now it was up to me to pick the one I liked most.

We went to the Ford dealership to look at their Escape Hybrid but I didn’t like the way the seat felt or the price. We went to CarMax to test-feel some more seats and I was set on a Mazda – I missed my Mazda Protege. Caleb had to go to Cocoa Beach the next day [for 2 nights] so we decided I would drive down to Tampa [238-mile drive], sell our car to the dealership [for $4,000], and buy their only 2011 Mazda Tribute colored steel-blue [for around $23,000]. It feels good going into a dealership knowing what you want and how much you’re going to pay, but it was a nice surprise to get such a low-interest rate.

Being the only customer there on their training day – learning how to use iPad’s to show commercials, fill out surveys, and set up a warranty page to the customers – I was the center of attention while waiting for Caleb to show up and co-sign the papers – it is his job paying for it. One of the guys drew me a picture to put in my new window. I got to test drive it and drive it off the lot with 90 miles on it. After we signed the papers, Caleb and I, went to dinner at a local diner and then went our separate ways.

I smiled all the way home. I enjoy the driving height of the car. I like the auto-headlight feature, the back window wiper, the very adjustable driver seat, the tight steering, the fold-down seats, the exterior color, but wouldn’t mind getting better gas mileage – that’s another reason I ride my bicycle. I made it 50 miles before the first bug hit my windshield. The car now has over 5,000 miles on it and plenty of bugs have made their mark, but one stood out as artistic and Caleb was able to capture the moment.

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Zeichen, Teken, Märk, Signs

Sunset Blvd, CA

On Hwy 1 between Monterey and San Francisco

Fisherman's Wharf

On Hwy 101 after Willits, CA

St Augustine, FL

Lankford Hwy, New Church, VA

Jacksonville, FL

Vermont or New Hampshire

Florida State College Jacksonville

Jacksonville, FL

Key West, FL

Chickamauga Battlefield, GA

Occupy Jacksonville

A song with signs for your further enjoyment!

 

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