Merry Christmas from the Marcinek’s

Cards from 2006 to 2013

2006: we were living on Maize Dr. in Virginia Beach, VA
“We hope your trip to Big Timber is safe and without crappy traffic. Caleb – it’ll be great to see you! Jess – we’re looking forward to meeting you!”

2008: after we got married in Virginia Beach
“We wish you many happy times and a wonderful future! (sorry for my sloppy handwriting!)”

2008: a pregnancy announcement (their first)

2008: Sammi’s first Christmas
“I have to say that if there was a contest for coolest Aunt & Uncle, you guys have won! The pig is super cute (Sam has chewed on it already) and that card was awesome! I heard that Trouthfishing in America CD a few years ago and wanted to get it for Sam – I’m so glad you did – it’s hilarious! Thank you for being great friends and relatives and thanks for the goodies, too!”

2009: we watched the ball drop in NYC
“Happy Christmas and Merry New Year! We heard you were going to New York – if you do, have fun! (… at least try to.) Hope to see you again soon!”

2010: born on Grandpa Robert’s birthday 51 years later
“Merry Christmas, Aldridge’s! I really hope we get to see you when you’re here in Montana! You’ll like Lyra, she’s just as tame as Sam is crazy 🙂 Drive carefully and… I guess you can bring Dad with you when you come over!”

2010: Lyra’s first Christmas (Susan is Jake’s mom)

2011: we were living on State Rd. A1A in Atlantic Beach, FL

Feb. 2012: Art from my nieces
“Dear Aunt Jess, You are the best Aunt EVER! Thank you SO much for the books 🙂 Lyra’s favorite is The Pokey Little Puppy. She learned how to say ‘turtle’! Sammi’s favorite is all of them, she says! We are excited to see you after you move to the west coast. We can hardly wait.”

2012: We were living on Dahlia Ave. in Imperial Beach, CA
Jake as Santa

2013: Sammi pulling Lyra in a sled
“Caleb, Jess, Sparky & Piggy, Thanks for coming to visit! Have a great Christmas!”

and cards from Robert (my father-in-law)

“Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Have a great time ‘over there’ but hurry back home.”

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Scads of S-Words

 

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silhouetted pier and shaded waves

standing palms on a sandy bank

straight palms on a sandy bank

sharp barnacles

sharp barnacles

super cute strutting companions

super-cute strutting companions

sea kelp swimming in a tide pool

sea kelp swimming in a tide pool

stranger sitting in sunlight

stranger sitting on a stone

staring at a showy anemone

staring at a showy anemone

smooth grass strands

smooth grass strands

space between the structure

space between the structure

stretching seagull

stretching seagull

sunset sweeping across the sky

sunset sweeping across the sky

surfer standing in the shallows

surfer standing in the shallows

sharing a secret

seemingly small

splash of spiny chartreuse

splash of spiny Chartreuse

sexy succulent server

sexy succulent server

strangled spots

strangled spots

sketching on a scholarly site

sketching on a scholarly site

simple sign

simple sign

 

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My Version of Caleb’s Message in a Bottle

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I love the way you take charge

Lurking in the engine room, in the dark
Overpowering me for our first kiss
Vehemently taking my breath
Every moment of each day since

You have a beauty that can’t be met
Overtures sung with a voice so sweet
Undulating them with your feet

Just you is all I want
Even if it breaks my heart
Serious in the day though I may be
Sensuous at night is where I want to be
In your eyes I see a smile
Caught off guard, I laugh for awhile
Always in your arms I hope to be,

The love of my life I don’t want to set free.

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The Ride Home

"Kissing Lovers" by Edronce Rukodzi

“Kissing Lovers” by Edronce Rukodzi

Sleep eventually comes. Caleb gets up at 6:00 am when the hotel alarm, that he set, goes off. I wait in the comfort of the sheets until 6:30 when mine goes off. Caleb has the bags repacked and in the car. I get dressed, grab the keys, and we are out the door. I feel it start to sprinkle so we don’t put the top down. We drop the car off, grab our bags that seem heavier now weighted down with salt and coral, get on the trolley, and make our way to Terminal H.

It’s after 8:00 when we see that there is no one to check in with at our gate yet. As we were getting tickets we were asked if we wanted to volunteer our seats – we do not. We go on the search for breakfast. We end up with sandwiches from Nathan’s and a free sample of a gingerbread latte from Starbucks. Now we wait while the seats near our gate fill up.

clouds over Georgia

clouds over Georgia

We are sitting next to a group of mothers following their kids to regionals for high school lawyer students and listening to them talk about how laundry is done in their house – with and without their husbands and kids and whether they leave their clothes inside out or have whites or wash their own. Ah, the simple pleasures of being a housewife and following your kids around versus my version of no kids, just dogs.

Boarding for us is quick, we are in row 12 and soon enough joined by a quiet girl about our age who will claim the window seat. Caleb sleeps and I read, but the buzzing sound that he tells me will go away in the air – doesn’t. I put in ear plugs and get some aspirin from the attendant. I might have a headache and ringing in my ears for hours after the flight, but at least I won’t have a migraine.

There are a lot of sleeping faces on the plane and I hope that in our three-hour layover Caleb will be able to get some more sleep at the airport. I will call our neighbor before we leave to let him know we are on our way. We were going to invite him to dinner, but he doesn’t like pizza which Caleb has craved since we reached the island. Perhaps we can get him some lasagna, chocolate cake, and peanut M&M’s.

flight tracker

flight tracker

There are fall colors through the window as we make our descent into Atlanta – traveling is a beautiful thing. There are plenty of fried food smells filling the air when we step off the plane. We try to make our way to the USO, past the Zimbabwe Art Exhibit, but the stairs say Exit Only and we don’t want to have to go back through security. We return to Terminal A where we will find our way to P.F. Chang’s – the only one in an airport – so far.

We order some Californian beers – Stone from San Diego and Anchor Steam from San Francisco along with lettuce wraps, veggie rice, and sweet and sour chicken. I get half of mine to-go and we wait by the gate. We get in line when our zone is called and are quickly on board. I get offered to sit next to an old man – wishful thinking, by a father whom I talked with him and his young son, and by a young sailor before reaching row 40.

clouds over Texas

clouds over Texas

The young son has rideable luggage which the dad said is great. He can attach it to his bag and pull the kid and his stuff, but they haven’t mastered cornering yet. They are flying from Ohio to visit family in San Diego. I linger in the view of the clouds for a while and appreciate that this plane has no irritating sounds, only a few cries from the baby in the front. The attendants do the official cart service an hour into the trip and then bring around more drinks and snacks for anyone with the time they have left.

I suppose it has been a while since I’ve been on a flight that long since I’m used to only getting served once. On their international flight they offer complimentary booze. I get a lot of reading done while taking time to stare at the mountains and take pictures through a polarized lens and window that covers the photo in rainbows. As we are nearing San Diego my camera still stays it’s 8:00pm which seems more proper for a sunset than 5:00 pm.

Off the plane and we have to wait to grab the fourth sea-bag at baggage claim as we forget we are back in a large military city. Others were smart to write their names in Sharpie or put stickers around the strap. Ours is the one with the long pink ribbon that the catamaran used to mark our bag for loading. Dan picks us up and gives us food when we get home. We feed the dogs and then go to sleep – early.

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The Last Day

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The sun wasn’t seen, but we know it rose. We walked the island again. I could get used to living on the beach and walking the island’s perimeter. This makes me want to go home and walk that beach too for fear that it might miss footsteps pounding on its sandy shores. The water is inviting and the fish we see even more so. We eagerly go back to the tent for flippers to swim with and calories to eat and water to hydrate – we, all campers, can admit to not drinking enough.

We have all brought a gallon per person per day and all have left with at least half of our water untouched. We had planned on using more to make dinner, but perhaps now we could wash some of the salt and coral off – nah. Instead we will give the unopened 2.5 gallon jug to the rangers, and help save the park money. Caleb will just dump the other  one out which is a waste and hopefully a lesson.

The weather is fine and the water too – it’s the in-between that bites my skin, but Caleb has seen a sea urchin and I am determined to share that view with him. Once in the water the visibility is low again and the fish diminish in numbers. We are being watched by the lone egret on shore that is still catching his breakfast. We have a small cove of semi-calm water to swim in and the edges seem colder and rougher. I’m glad we were able to get back in the water, but I wanted to still be in there when the boat pulled up.

We went to ask the rangers if the catamaran was coming today and they assured us it would since the seaplane was already on its way. I didn’t want to pack up just to have to unpack later for the extra night we might have to spend. We are drying off in the tent and as our neighbors pack beside us it reminds me that today is our last day here. Regardless of the weather the island has been great and I will miss this place.

onboard

I already want to come back so that I get the chance to see a sea turtle and all the other creatures that inhabit this area. The boat won’t be here for another hour, and won’t leave for another four after, but already we have all our gear packed – almost so for the airplane ride home. The boat arrives and our tummies grumble. We wait at a picnic table until 11:00 am. Inside we find sandwich offerings of turkey, cheese, tomato, and peanut butter and jelly.  And potato salad, chips, cookies, and strawberries with watermelon.

We let our food settle while we sit upstairs and then take one last walk before saying goodbye. We hope to be back in another three years. The crowd returning with us will be a lot more ethnic voices and some pregnant ladies. Before departure Caleb’s iPod will die and he will attempt a nap while I read. With everyone on board we hit the choppy waters of the afternoon – it almost seems the captain is aiming to make it a bouncy ride – I haven’t felt this since being in the navy and it brings back fond memories.

The crew passes out comment cards with a prize for one for a return trip on them and sells raffle tickets for a t-shirt – we win neither. We have no luck getting a taxi as each that passes us is full. We are fine with walking at first, but the bags grow heavy, our feet sore, and the rain more frequent. Caleb leaves me at a bus stop near the beach with our stuff to run the last mile to the airport to pick up our rental car. Caleb pulls up and hands me the keys to the Mustang convertible and I throw the bags in the trunk.

At BurgerFi for dinner we meet two couples celebrating 20 years of friendship and marriage from Montana visiting Key West for ten days. On the way to Miami the rain will stop and we put the top down and some speed on the car. We call a hotel reservation number to find a room for the night and almost book a place north of the airport – we are south of it. We pull up to the Quality Inn in a Ford Mustang next to a Chevy truck that is staying for a Ford event and get one of the last two rooms available.

It’s $89 plus tax with a 36 minute ride to the airport in the morning – in six hours – and it smells like the smokers just left. We got directions, took showers, and now Caleb tries to sleep. I should do the same. I can still hear the wind and the waves and feel the motion of the ocean. The hotel has been resourceful in shoving their original fluffy pillows, now flat, into pillowcases half the size. I can hear some concert outside the room across the street and feel just as excited about traveling now as I did at the beginning of the trip.

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