Whatever Works In the Moment

buying the beer

buying the beer

I got to stay up late and read last night knowing I could sleep in this morning. I still set my alarm, but that was quickly silenced and I went back to bed until my secondary alarm, Sparky, started going off – and this one doesn’t shut up so easily. I got up to walk him and could’ve turned around quickly, but walked him to the end, got back to the room, and took him out again with Piggy who woke up alone. It’s good for them to get exercise in the shade of a 97 degree morning with a breeze that makes it feel like 85.

Caleb texted me at 8am. I picked him up, we got invited to hang out with Coleman, and went home to feed the dogs. We went to the gym for an hour and treated ourselves to smoothies – pineapple, kiwi, mango, green apple – that the guards let us take slurping out of the gate. Caleb didn’t realize anything until the guy at the Almoayyed Plaza desk was like, “WTF?!” but in Arabic. I’m surprised we forgot, but am glad we didn’t get in trouble.

drinking the beer

drinking the beer

We got to John’s place at 10am with a sixer of Shock Top wheat that I had three of. We walked on base at 2pm to get more beer, booze, and chip dip from the NEX. Then we went to the liquor store and bought a sixer of Benediktiner that I had 2 of. Caleb bought a $196 bottle of Johnnie Walker Blue. Back in the room I sipped on some Redbreast – it smelled terrible but went down smooth.

We hung out until 6pm when we needed to go home and walk and feed the dogs again. We went back for dinner. Caleb ordered BD40 of shawarma from Bayti that came with fries and the chocolate ones came with fried pineapple (that I shoved in John’s face) and then ate the rest in that dish. We hung out around the pool until 9:40 when Caleb started getting tired. We took home plenty of leftovers. I had fun hanging out with the guys. We’re home at 10:15pm.

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It’s Closed Right Now

sign leaving base

sign leaving base

I feel late taking Caleb to work at 5:30. I drop him off at the dirt lot and drive on base for the first time. I park, walk over to the heavy doors (heavier than all the others) of the Freedom Souq, and notice the dark room with the sign out front. The gym doesn’t open at 5am on weekends – which Friday is here. It opens at 10am and I’m more than four hours early. On my way back to the highway I see Caleb getting on the van that will take him to work. At least he will be on time today.

Piggy's beautiful eyes

Piggy’s beautiful eyes

I have Cheerios instead of going out for breakfast. This allows me to get more blogging done, even though the walk to the dining room and back would only take me about 15 minutes. Piggy proceeds to regurgitate the broccoli and nuts I gave them yesterday. It seems I’m not the only one who thought the mayonnaise was bad. I’m just bummed I tried it after they had some. Eating breakfast seemed to help settle her stomach, but Sparky didn’t feel like chewing on kibble.

restaurant review for Bayti

restaurant review for Bayti 

I walked them at 1pm, asked the front desk about Gerge’an (kid’s celebration of Ramadan) and they had no clue, and made butternut squash raviolis with pasta sauce. Finished another post and took a shower. I should be getting out more often and reading more, anything but sitting and wasting hours on the internet (looking up restaurants, books, and clothes) between bouts of productivity on my blog. I read 32 pages before going to sleep.

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A Morning Off

still true 1,500 years later

still true 1,500 years later

Caleb told work that his housing appointment was at 8am, but it’s actually at noon. They want him back to work at one. This gave us both the opportunity to sleep in. I woke at 7:30 feeling like it was 10 o’clock already. I walked the dogs while Caleb got up and then we went to breakfast where we were offered French toast. I asked Caleb if he wanted any and he didn’t until I said yes. When we left he let the guy know that he was caught off guard with the offer, it wasn’t a translation issue.

We go to the Pass & ID office to learn that our registration and insurance is outdated. We walk to the rental car place, Al Kobaisi, where we get the Nissan Tiida we were driving after Caleb runs over to the dirt lot and drives the Hyundai back. The office was right that it would probably be faster to get a different car and have them make a copy of its papers that are good until September instead of waiting on the other car’s papers to show up in three weeks or so.

science project or tasty basil seed lychee beverage

science project or tasty basil seed lychee beverage?

We parked back at the lot, near the street, and went to the NEX to get me a lock for the gym. A lot of day users don’t seem to use them, and I’ve seen paid ones that don’t have locks either, but I’d rather feel more relaxed working out knowing my things will still be there when I get back – though I’ve seen boots, soap, and purses left out – it only takes one person. While we are in the check-out line a familiar face walks up – the guy I helped build condos for in Virginia. He just got here Monday, cue “It’s a small world after all…” We talk for a few minutes and he remembers Caleb’s name.

By the time we make it the library at 11am to pass some time the cross-stitch event is over. Maybe I can catch it next week. We go through all the aisles and I’m surprised at what they have. There’s the usual Stephen King, Nora Roberts, Star Wars, and sci-fi. They have a lot of books for kids, world history, Islam history, and naval history. They have books on language, health, recipes, college entrance, and basic studies. And then they have The Swerve. Caleb tells me that a lot of the books are donated, but I’m wondering from who. Some people who get stationed overseas believe they have reasons to get more hateful in their racism; others find reasons to love other cultures or find it easier to accept that the world isn’t all about them or the lifestyle they grew up in.

From there we go to housing to wait in line. We sign in at 11:45 and get called back at noon to sign a pre-contract that we already have, so I have to put us back in the system at 12:15, but we have all papers in hand and future appointments set by 12:35. We’re both ready for lunch so we head to the NEX for bagels – veggie supreme on jalapeño cheddar and one with cucumber cream cheese. I finish mine while we walk towards the gate. Caleb says he will take the bus back over, but the driver tells him he’s not leaving until 2:30 and it’s already 1pm – when Caleb said he would be back at work.

beautiful sunset over Amwaj Islands

beautiful sunset over Amwaj Islands

We drive over to the Mina Salman gate and get out to talk to the guard’s supervisor. They tried having me reverse into another car and then let us pull through and park. Caleb steps up on a black stool to talk to a man inside an air-conditioned window. I can’t hear much of what’s being said, but the guy needs him to call someone to verify that he can be on the base. He tries offering Caleb a ride inside, but Caleb is determined to walk – not stand around wasting time talking to people that aren’t going to give him instant results.

He didn’t take the paperwork as he grabbed his bag and stormed off. I don’t like that he got so upset when he was the one that apparently put the appointment in his phone for 8:30. I thought that was just a lie he told work, but perhaps he is lying to me too. At some point he said, “I wish they would just speak English!” And I bet they wish he would just speak Arabic, but they’ve learned more than he has to bridge the gap. Before you marry someone, put them in a similar situation so you know how tolerant they are.

I took the dogs out in 102 degree weather and they take a short nap on the cold floor before remembering that it’s lunch time. I play with them before I realize how dirty and smelly they are. Both of them make me follow them down and carry them into the bathroom, but after their short shower they are full of energy and ready to rub themselves on the dirty rug and smelly blankets. Shower smells and feelings of cleanliness are temporary. I get to blogging and Caleb gets off work. He’s waiting at the roundabout when I get there and he apologizes on the ride home for getting so upset earlier.

this way to the private party

this way to the private party

Sparky puts his lovely breath in my face and I figure it’s time for a cleaning. It’s been two months. I trimmed nails, cleaned teeth, and gave baths before all our stuff got packed. I clean away some of the gunk on his right rear tooth only to realize that part of it’s missing. It looks like his tooth had a bone-slide. It’s rough and I compare the other side. There is no other damage. I just wonder how I could’ve not noticed it for so long, but it’s not everyday I’m in the back of my dog’s mouth. I want to worry about it, but he seems to be ok with it. Just like when Piggy earned her set of scars after a dog fight. I felt better though knowing where her pain came from. I don’t like that I don’t know what happened.

I take the dogs on a sunset walk while Caleb catches up on reading. I tell the dogs we can turn around twice, but they insist on going farther. I tug on their leashes when they start to drag their feet and we make it back to the room after 30 minutes where they can drink water and collapse on their sides. We self-invite to a private iftar and are told so at the door, so it’s back to the room for us to eat Ramen with corn, beans, eggs, and cheese while watching TV. I have trouble falling asleep so I get up to stretch (also in prep for my morning gym session) and Caleb joins me before going back to bed to puppies that are sleeping all over the pillows – they know comfort when they feel it.

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The Slowest Morning

desert coffee, anyone?

desert coffee, anyone?

checking to see what we need to get the rental car on base

the must haves for a base pass (for our rental car)

I slept in, ordered a pancake so I could listen to the foreign guys a bit longer, and sat by Sparky’s bowl to make sure he ate breakfast. I took the dogs out for their afternoon walk and there was Sara’s Pampered Pets Paradise Mobile Grooming van. I asked if she had nail clippers. She stopped what she was doing, trimming a large dog with lots of little black hairs, to cut Piggy’s long nails – free of charge! I made sure to find her on Facebook and share the news of how friendly and knowledgeable she is about the pet world.

gym class schedule

gym class schedule

stairs in the Freedom Souq

stairs in the Freedom Souq

I leave the house after 11am, go by the Personal Property Office and get some paperwork about the arrival of our things. They are due here on July 22, but we need to give them 7-10 days to go through customs. They must be more thorough with shipments than they are with what people sneak in their bags through the airport. We will see. Went by housing and turned in TLA, then went to the NEX to look at perfume, purses, and PlayStation’s – all the things I don’t usually shop for. I would’ve gotten a new clutch if it hadn’t cost $40. I can get two purses for that price. The perfume on base is $60 and off base can be bought for $12.

more advice on base

more advice on base

walking down American Alley

walking down American Alley

I sat in one of the big chairs along the wall, the ones with someone else’s butt marks already in them, to read through the MWR monthly for July and saw Nikki who was also running errands while waiting on her husband. I decided to walk American Alley while I waited. Inside a store that sells all handmade items – rugs, lamps, trinkets – I noticed a cup similar to the one we had bought the other day and texted Caleb that we need to haggle better because we overpaid.

just another brick in the wall

just another brick in the wall

just another plant in the desert

just another plant in the desert

I walked through a small mart that sold drinks, candy, ice cream, canned meats, chips and all things in-between. I bought two drinks to try – lychee and a Freez – and some jelly beans because I knew they wouldn’t melt in my bag. Then I walked into Mega Mart and went upstairs where I tried on a green swimsuit. The body was cute, but the top didn’t fit right. Then I looked through their kitchen, bathroom, and kid sections. I was hoping to find more books, but I did get a woman to smile at me when she said hi. Downstairs I saw curry flavoured noodles, along with the tomato ones Sonal sells at Indo-Euro, and cheesy ones too.

just another unwanted cone

just another unwanted cone

just another sign on a fence

just another sign on a fence

I walked back to base with my liquid treat. At the gate the first guard told me the second guard would ask me a question. The first one was, “You don’t know the answer?” to what? The second was, “How many stripes are on the American Flag?” and of course I gave a smart-ass remark. That would be cool though if it was like Life of Brian where you have to get the answer right to proceed.

just more stickers on a window

military stickers on a shop window

just another hand carved wooden chandelier

hand carved wooden chandelier

I opened my drink inside the gate, downed half of its bubbly goodness, thought I screwed the top back on, put it in my bag, and took it back out again when I felt it running down my back. I only lost an ounce or two, but I suppose now is as good a time as any to wash my bag. I know it needs it, especially now that it’s covered in sticky drink. I walked over to the NEX where the early bingo was starting and saw Nikki standing in line. I texted Caleb and he was getting off the boat and was ready to go home. I met him in the car in the parking lot.

sign on Mega Mart door

sign on MegaMart door

MegaMart's bulk section

MegaMart’s bulk section

Fed the dogs and gave myself some water and the rest of the Port Salut cheese. We watched some movie to pass the time until about 8:30. We headed to the Bab Al Bahrain Mall aka Manama Souq. We went inside, went upstairs, and the Lantern Event (advertised on fliers on light poles) was still setting up. We went into the first store on the corner and looked at wooden holders for fruits and candies, rugs, a tea set that I want, jewelry, and some cologne. I ended up getting a small shiny bottle full of Tea Rose oil. Downstairs we got a bowl of strawberry-lemon and cheesecake gelato to share.

MegaMart clothing

MegaMart clothing

school supplies with sampling wall

school supplies with sampling wall

Outside I showed Caleb where Amy had bought cologne for her husband and he didn’t decline the offer to buy both when the guy started selling to us. The more frequent the customer, the better the deal. Then we passed a guy selling water for 100 fils. I gave him 200. We walked around some more to enjoy the sights and smells. We had parked in the dirt lot and got the chance to walk by the open mosque and hear the praying. I don’t think the men appreciated us staring in as they put their shoes on, but that’s all we could see and no pictures were taken.

water selection: fumitory, palm, pollen, diabetic, alheaj, olive

water selection: fumitory, palm, pollen, diabetic, alheaj, olive

perhaps another park

perhaps another park

I was going to take Caleb past the lit up sports center, but it’s closer to the Souq than I realised, which would mean turning around so close to home, and it was already 10:30 – not that it’s late, but we do have a schedule to keep tomorrow.

a traditional caffee shop

a traditional caffee shop

part of the souq

part of the souq

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A Busy Day

shopping - souq style!

shopping – souq style!

Caleb wakes me at 5am to take him to work. I bring paperwork that I won’t need until later, if I even decide to come back to base today. I get to the gym at 5:30am and though it’s busy a treadmill is open. I run a mile and a half today in 15:30 – not bad for being on leave for so long. I try some of the other equipment – using more weights on some and less on others. I feel like such a noob in here next to all these other girls that are in a routine with their tone muscles, flexible legs, strong arms, and sweaty faces.

I go back to the locker room and someone comes out of the sauna, so I go in. There is a girl on the floor working out which makes me feel that I must do the same. This only shortens the time I’m in there as 40 celsius is hot on my dry throat. The shower this morning has no problem finding the cold water, and luckily there are two drains per shower – one to catch immediate water and the other to catch spray and runoff where you can dry off before opening the curtain.

I get back to the house at 7am and the dogs aren’t ready to go out yet, so I go to breakfast. One guy comes in and pours two cups of coffee. Soon he is joined by another guy and they are speaking Swedish perhaps as another four come in. The room is getting smaller as I finish my breakfast and grab an egg for the dogs. One guy orders an omelet with bacon – ahh, the freedoms of Bahrain.

Angel and Nick playing hide and seek with Jay

Angel and Nick playing hide and seek with Jay

I walk the dogs and then take the bathroom trash bag out to pick up after them. It was ok when the grass was dry and their poo baked from the sun. Now, a water truck comes by making the grass moist and the poo melted in. I pick up what I can and then grab trash along the way. It’s a larger bag so I pick up some of the bottles from the dirt lot and the hotel manager tells me the municipality will come. I smile as I wonder how often they come. The glass bottles (that break and cause a walking hazard for my dogs) and the half full water bottles have been there since we moved in. I’m ok with accepting the culture and watching them throw trash out their windows, but I’m also ok with picking up after them.

Amy is here at 8:30 to pick me up with her son Nick and his friend Jay. We drive to base to get some cash and then drive to the Manama Souq. We would’ve parked across the street but the main lot was full and they had yet to open the other one, so we drove down the street, past Golden City, and parked in the dirt lot. There we met with Reika, Chrissy and her daughter Angel, Yanell and her son Lucas, and then Jay’s mom met us in the tailor/fabric shop.

I went with Amy outside to the perfume, watch, and sunglass hut next door and watched her haggle for perfume for her, cologne for the husband, and two pairs of sunglasses for her son – knock-off Oakley’s so he doesn’t wear his nice ones to work. Inside someone was getting fitted while the kids played hide-and-seek upstairs. From there, most of us went to base. Nick had basketball practice and the rest of us were ready for a drink.

me and Lucas hanging out

me and Lucas hanging out

I rode with Reika and we met Chrissy at the smoothie stand. I got a strawberry, pineapple, cucumber, mango smoothie – delicious and refreshing. Then we went to Smash Hit Subs and Pizza and two pizzas and some bread sticks were ordered. I had what was left of the hollowed out sticks when Angel was done with them and Amy shared some of her trail mix. I didn’t think I was hungry, but watching others eat, realising that breakfast was a long time ago, and that it is lunch time and the smoothie was more of a hydrator than a filler I didn’t mind snacking.

We hung out and all had something to say, sometimes carrying on multiple conversations at once. Chrissy had to go clean, Reika wanted to take a nap, Amy had another hour to use for studying while waiting on Nick. Reika gave me a ride home and I walked the dogs. As soon as I brought them inside the houseboy was ringing the bell. Good timing. Our floors are starting to resemble more beach than marble. Then I can feed the dogs and find something to do to fill my time between now and when the event starts at the church at 9:30pm.

Facebook got the better of me again, but I enjoy sharing all the good things about Bahrain with people curious enough to ask. I did manage to publish the post that has taken me days to get the pictures loaded – distraction and slow internet haven’t helped either. I started getting restless around 7pm and I think I fed the dogs instead of taking them out. Piggy ate of course, but Sparky didn’t – did I already feed them?

driving towards the church

driving towards the church

I looked the place up on Google Maps, but my phone wouldn’t find it. I had no problem with the Waze app and thought I would leave early. There are shops, cemeteries, and gardens nearby the Sacred Heart Church so I would have something to walk around and see. I was good until the last left where I was directed to enter an alley thick enough for a bicycle. I didn’t mind though as this let me go through a street of lights. There was a sports building in all white, another with multi-colors strung up, and so much more.

The shops were coming to life (pun intended) and people were in the street. I was going slow enough to let the brave ones cross. I would obviously stop for them. I wanted badly to just park in the street like the others, but the car may get hit or I might get blocked in – and I’m alone. I looked at all the men walking in groups and the women traveling in pairs covered in burkas. I knew I would draw attention – and I’m not ready for that alone yet.

I drove the same route again before finding a way out. On the street to my hotel there are two boys playing soccer. I stop mid speed hump to let the boy fetch his ball and return to his friend or brother before continuing. Then the night guard helps me park and opens my door before I’m ready. I suppose I shouldn’t be so quick to turn off the car. Or I could lock the doors as they don’t do it automatically like mine after you reach a certain speed.

I love the nightlife here. The temperature cools down, the street lights come on (not always the headlights), and people are everywhere – sitting, walking, shopping – and pausing in their car to listen to the nightly prayer (at least that’s what I did). Greetings are quick inside before the dogs go back to bed – Piggy on my pillow and Sparky on the couch. Another night with Facebook, but I made some new friends and found some artsy fartsy classes I can take on the island. I could probably do a lot of the projects myself, but then I have to supply the materials and have no company during the process.

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