Spot the Difference

1 event, 2 women, 3 bracelets, 4 decades

 

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Happy Father’s Day

cinnamon raisin bagel with sausage, egg, mozzarella, and sauerkraut

It really should be renamed to Happy ‘man that disciplined you, gave you advice, made sure you had food and clothes, maybe took a fake sick day with you, took you to work, judged your friends, gave you something special’ Day! Father’s come in many forms and can be called by different names – Dad, Papa, Pops. On this day you should remember the man, or men – dad, uncle, grandpa that made a difference in your life, hopefully for the better, but remember that the way they raised you has made you who you are today. And if that is a free person – free to love, work, play than you turned out ok.

To the Fathers in my life:
Caleb – the love of my life and the daddy to my dogs, I love you.
John – the man who appreciates the woman, but didn’t want to raise the teen, thank you.
Barry – to the man who had to deal with me and Tiffany, I’m sorry.
Robert – you are an ol’ bucket of info, and you did great with your kids.
Grandpa – you tried your damnedest to fight your demons and raise my parent, congrats.
Jake – you have two amazingly beautiful and spoiled girls, watch out.
Trent and Tony – you have crazy taste in women, but make cute boys.
Eric – if your dad qualities are anything like your uncle qualities you will be fine.

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The Venus Transit

A recent visit to the R.H. Fleet Science Center in Balboa Park informed us of the Venus transit to take place on June 5th. We would have to come back for the safety glasses because they were sold out. June 4th we drive back to the museum to get our glasses – $2. When looking through them at anything but the sun all you can see is complete blackness – well, besides all the light that comes in around the sides. I am looking forward to having seen two astronomical occurrences in one year; the prior being the annular eclipse.

I grab the camera and a lawn chair and head outside to the clearest sky, yet in Imperial Beach, at 3:00 pm. Caleb donates his glasses to make lens cover boxes for our cameras. I will have to remember to hold the box over my lens when I zoom in, but the image caught is amazing, and blurry. Even with these glasses on the sun is so bright. I can only stare for an hour before my eyes begin to hurt. I have captured my proof digitally and can now return to my regularly scheduled plans – whatever those may be.

Size is a very relative description. Seeing another planet look like a pea on a plate when passing between the sun and Earth gives me a different perspective on size. I hope everyone that cared to see it got the opportunity, either this year or in 2004, because it will be more than 100 years before it happens again – a true once, or twice, in a lifetime moment. It’s one thing for NASA or Hollywood to show this on TV; it’s a whole other experience to see it for yourself.

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The Sadness of Return

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We stop in Santa Barbara to get coffee at a local bakery near a Starbucks and a seafood restaurant and have to stop again before getting on Hwy 1 when I spot a pink box – donuts just seem to taste better when they come from places that put their fried goods in bright cardboard containers. I get five donuts and Caleb gets two apple fritters and a turkey croissant. This will be a substantial boost of energy for the upcoming hike.

We make our way to the Santa Monica Mountains. We are on the state park side and I stop to take pictures of a squirrel that has gone looking for food in this girl’s car while she pays for parking. She’s a bit hesitant to return to her Honda with the door wide open – perhaps he plans to search her too. We leave there to look for the national park visitor center and traipse on the other side of the conglomeration of rocks and trees that are closer to the sea.

I thought our hike would be more forested with snow, but we got flowered hills with tall grasses in a field. The path and weather seemed so nice that we brought the dogs with us. They wanted to get out of the car just as much as we did, but that was our first mistake. We only made it so far before we were running back to the car. Once back within the safe reaches of our vehicle I began to inspect my four-legged friends for ticks – the enemy, and happened to find one too many, one is enough, to satisfy my curiosity.

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I decided that we were done hiking there and we could come back when there are less ticks or when we are more prepared for their habitat. They won today, but it’s also the last day of our trip which is usually doomed anyways. We are only 181 miles from home and I decide to take the highway all the way back. Somehow Los Angeles traffic isn’t as terrible as usual, but we almost split a motorcycle in half when it decided to drive between us and the vehicle we were overtaking, but it’s cool because that’s his law-given right – to be a disrespectful dumbass.

I contemplate stopping at Oki Dog as we drive by the Sunset Blvd Exit, but we’re not even hungry and I don’t know how well the burrito would hold up for leftovers, let alone the fries that are still dripping from the vat of hot liquid that they were dunked in. Then we see the LED signs on the highway that tell us to look out for a dark blue Yukon with a rear broken window – and wonder what their story is, but not enough to wait around and try to find out.

We make it home before dinner and our neighborhood is under construction. The city has decided to take a car lane and widen the sidewalk and add an official bike lane. I agree that it’s a good idea. The 7-11 is closed for new shelves and a coffee island. I wish they would’ve done that at the store I worked at. Convenience needs cleaning every few years. We go by the Post Office to pick up copies of bills that we get emailed, stacks of junk mail that will go straight into the recycling bin, some vegetable seeds from my father-in-law, and a check reimbursing Caleb for a loan he gave to a friend.

Back at home and the answering machine is full of bill collectors calling for someone who doesn’t live here. I turn on my computer to find out that the mouse and keyboard still don’t work – I just love coming home. Caleb has to go to work tomorrow and is in great need of a haircut. The house is still a mess from the recent move and our long trip away, so we have difficulty, really no luck, finding the razor guards to trim his mop with. I have fun cutting designs into his hair until we are left with a Private Joker impersonator – but one with as much hair all over him as the dogs that are also in need of soap and water.

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Monterey Southward

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It was so bright in the tent that I kept waking up. We had set the alarm for 5:30 am, but I was up before that drinking coffee out of our new thermos. We had stopped by REI last night to see what hot beverage apparatus they had, but got there 40 minutes too late so we ended up going next door to Target and buying a 40 oz. thermos and getting it filled at the in-store Starbucks for a great price.

After getting up, we try to find Fort Ord – a new national park as of two weeks ago, but it has yet to be cleaned up for public viewing. The state park was closed and the area  in-between is being used by firefighters for training. We stop at the Big Sur River Inn for breakfast burritos – heavy with rice, veggies, two eggs, and cheese – and a smoothie before walking over the river on a rope footbridge. There are festive lights, colorful flowers, and fire pits that look like chairs.

We stop at the Spirit Garden – home of the human-bird-nest maker – and an International Arts and Cultural Center, but Jayson Fann, and crew, are not here. Lucky for us the pillows on the concrete steps at Nepenthe are still available for sea gazing and meditation. Again we are too early for their opening hours and we drive past flowers and construction, waves and rocks, and fog and hills looking for the Treebones Resort that has one nest available amongst their many yurts.

We had a map, directions, and an estimated time it should take us to drive south, but the kind person that gave us all that information forgot that we would be making frequent stops, so we ended up driving past the resort – even though I read the gifts~dinner at the bottom of the sign at the turn to go up the driveway. I call my dad, get the address, and drive 12 miles back north. In the office we are told that only paying guests are allowed and I turn to walk out – no point in sticking around.

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Caleb speaks some magic to this lady and she walks us out to the deck, points the nest out to us, and whispers that if we sneak down she didn’t see anything. We thank her, find it, and respectfully stay out of the fenced-in area. I would’ve loved to climb in, but that would be like going to a regular hotel not paying for a room and touching one of their beds. As we walked back to the parking lot I was also tempted to look in a yurt, but with a two-day minimum stay at $225/night I’m guessing these people don’t want to be disturbed.

If you know where to look or have a keen eye – as we did upon leaving – part of the nest can be seen from the road, but there is still something peaceful about sleeping in a wooded fortress on a hill overlooking the Pacific – even more so with their no pet policy. We stop at a vista point and get back on Hwy 1 behind a truck hauling a trailer. An impatient car attempts to go around us and the truck in a no-passing zone around a blind turn. I save the south-bounders from a pile up with the red car and motorcycle heading north.

It’s one thing to drive like an ass on a wide highway with the possibility of fire and death, but to do so along a cliff is just even more rude to the people who have to come find our bodies or evidence of such. The car passed us cutting lanes at high speeds. Though soon enough (for my heart rate and sanity) I could see a beach with piles of sleeping and molting elephant seals and the young playing in the tide and looked forward to being closer to nature and off this dangerous road for a while.

It has changed a lot since we were here last. It used to just be a sign in a parking lot with a rope blocking people from traversing down the cliff to pet the cute wild animals. Now there is another parking lot available and a mile or more of boardwalk with proper fencing and sturdy rails. There are volunteers out today teaching people about the seals weight, age, habitat, migration, diet, mating, predators, and their conservation status.

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They are brown, golden, grey, yellow, silver, tan, and white. Some are resting while others are finding a cooler spot in the sand. Different couples appear to be hugging, but we are told it’s young males learning how to compete for the ladies when their time comes. This is also their chance to practice their vocalizations – barking, grunting, clicking, trumpeting, serenading, along with the chattering of adolescents. We watch the seals for over an hour and if that wasn’t enough we get to see a colony of ground squirrels.

It’s not our first time seeing the quick and furry creatures set up in the brush along the cliff rocks, but for a couple from London this isn’t something they get to see often. They admit to not having seen hummingbirds before coming to the United States and I realize that the birds, bees, and bunnies that I grew up with doesn’t make them common worldwide. I grew up knowing that giraffes belong in Africa and kangaroos in Australia, but I didn’t know that there were several subspecies of both with their own niches.

We drive to the Hearst Castle Visitor Center, but I can’t find any shaded parking, so it’s on to Cambria to look at some metal and glass art before going to Estero Bay to walk knee-deep in wildflowers between ocean cliffs and cow-covered hills. Tonight’s camping will be in Los Padres National Forest, near Santa Barbara. I have half an avocado with garlic bread for dinner and three s’mores and sour coffee for dessert around our beautiful campfire at site 7 for $23.

We bought firewood twice on this trip and will be bringing some home – we are less than four hours away via highway. Camping in California can be a pain – long looking-for-camp drives and expensive nights, but I feel lucky tonight with fire, food, stars, husband, dogs, and a tent that beckons. The gate won’t open until around 7:00 am in the morning, so I see us sleeping in, getting coffee for us, water for the dogs, and doing a hike before going home and putting an end to yet another great vacation.

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