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Death Valley

Death Valley

Up at 6:00 am and the sun is already coming up over the mountains. By 6:45 am we are on our way to Dante’s View, via Death Valley Junction which will save us 36 miles, overlooking Badwater Basin. It was 70 degrees when we woke and an hour and a half later climbed to 80. I did a short walk out to get a different view of the Panamint Range – described in 1880 as an army of caterpillars – while my dad helped a French man with a bloody nose.

Today’s temperature will be deceiving with the breeze – reaching 103 by 10:30 am. We stop at Furnace Creek for water and ice and drink half the gallon – it is warm outside. Riding in the car I think of my love of Caleb and nature and the beauty that brings to wherever we may be, and I wish to be in Bahrain with him so that he could see it through my eyes. I appreciate the opportunities I have to love and travel and shed some tears for those not able to realize their dreams and find true meanings in such simplicity.

purple Mojave Aster in Death Valley

purple Mojave Aster in Death Valley

My dad simply shares that he is thinking about love through song and nature and his wife. Life is a tune that we all have to find for ourselves and interpret the circumstances that arise out of nothing – this place is beautiful because it is seen through love – otherwise it is just another unforgiving desert that is dry, hot, and void of much life. I agree that things are better when shared, but this valley and its mountains have lots to offer the lone traveler as well.

Badwater Basin - Death Valley

Badwater Basin – Death Valley

We stop at the Mesquite Flat Sand Dunes and where there is green plant life (sign of water) and shade there are signs of small animal tracks. We enjoy watching the wind blow the sand sometimes slightly and other times with gusto reshaping the dunes incrementally. Rocks and sticks get buried and uncovered. Foot prints are soon just a memory. I find a desiccant that someone was thoughtful enough to leave behind in the off-chance there was a slight possibility of capturing any moisture. Humorous as it may be I will be taking it with me as nature is just fine with controlling its humidity levels.

husband's initials in the sand - Death Valley

husband’s initials in the sand – Death Valley

Just outside the park we see a starving coyote. Without hesitation I think of the treats we gave to the dog in northern Arizona and grab the bag of molasses cookies. The coyote, upon noticing we have turned the car around, approaches but keeps a distance. I throw a cookie to him while my dad takes pictures with his zoom lens. I continue to toss them one at a time and for each one he looks at us, gets close to grab it, and then goes to the other side of the rocks to eat it. Later I will think of the eggs or water we could’ve given him.

My dad is hesitant to stop at the Manzanar War Relocation Center now a National Historic Site. It’s where the Americans placed the Japanese-Americans during WWII regardless of the loss of their homes, farms, personal property and privacy, and honor and respect – it’s a sad place, but he took me since I have yet to see it for myself. We both agree the view is beautiful and should be enjoyed in happier settings.

entrance to Manzanar

entrance to Manzanar

Looking through the museum I see a model of the grounds and it is larger than I realized. There were mostly barracks, but they had sports fields and gardens, a galley and guard shacks, a school and hospital too. But they lacked privacy – many went from farm homes to partitioned rooms, took showers with strangers, and waited to use the latrine with seats only inches apart from each other.

model of Manzanar

model of Manzanar

My dad asks about the relevance of a comparison of Pearl Harbor and 9-11. The ranger is happy to tell us that the Japanese had more sympathy towards the Muslims in ensuring that they weren’t put through the same thing 59 years later that they endured. I sympathize with those that were hated against because of a crime committed by someone with the same religion or ethnicity, but could never contemplate locking them behind barbed wire or bars to keep them safe – it’s better to teach tolerance and love – though some may think those are just hippy thoughts.

The park is over 800 acres and a 3.2 mile road is offered to help navigate when visit time is short. The 44th annual pilgrimage was a few days ago and involves the decorating of the Soul Consoling Tower (monument in the cemetery) with origami birds, flowers, and other mementos that may have blown away in the high winds. There is still a heavy rainbow-colored bundle of origami cranes tied to a post upon our arrival with some flowers left to dry in the sun. I’m grateful that parks like this one are doing their part to ensure that the bad parts of history don’t repeat themselves by reminding new generations about the pain of their ancestors.

road to

road to Manzanar cemetery

Next stop…Erick Schat’s Bakkery in Bishop where Dad will buy a coffee, a sweet bun covered in nuts, and a loaf of German 7-grain bread. Being here reminds me of when Caleb and I stopped here and got some bread and a sandwich. This is also where we stopped at the White Mountain Ranger Station and the girl behind the desk told Caleb, “You like hiking…ya, we don’t have that here.” Perhaps she thought we meant in the city, not thinking about the valley between mountain ranges (hiking) that she calls home.

Tioga Pass (road through Yosemite) is open. We stop in Lee Vining where I inquire about the road conditions in a café and at the Mono Lake Committee Info Center. Both tell me that it’s been raining awhile and that if it snows the road will close again…even if we are on it. I am so glad that we were able to drive this road. We encountered rain, snow, and freezing temperatures – 32 degrees after a 103 degree morning – I love California! It’s sunny on the other side and we are able to stop for pictures of waterfalls, trees, reflections, deer, mountains, a tunnel, a bridge, and deer.

sunshine in Yosemite

sunshine in Yosemite

We won’t leave the park until dark. With the sunshine my dad took me into Yosemite Valley. A guy suggested that we visit Glacier Point, but we won’t have time on this trip. The rooms were a little pricy for our budget in Mariposa -$130, so we continue to Merced where we can sleep for half the price. We had strawberries for breakfast, trail-mix throughout the day, and I will eat half a bag of Hobnobs while emailing Caleb.

waterfall in Yosemite

waterfall in Yosemite

Today was great, but it was also a detour. My dad had planned to go to Virginia City, a small town that once was booming while silver was being mined, in Nevada. There was a road closure after Bridgeport and we would have had to detour further east into Nevada and my dad had reservations for somewhere further west, so I was able to get a glimpse of what Yosemite has to offer – and it is more than just Half Dome. The park has plenty of hikes offering spectacular views.

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From Phoenix to Shoshone

London Bridge in Lake Havasu City

London Bridge in Lake Havasu City

Out of bed late this morning, hugged Caroline bye, and then had blackberries and strawberries with homemade granola. Caroline made it safely to work, but the tire pressure light came on. After we picked up the rental we drove by and I hung out in her office while my dad took the car around the corner to a tire shop. It was going to take longer than he could wait. There was a nail in the tire that Caroline was able to get fixed on her lunch break.

gate decorations to London Land

gate decorations to London Land

We went to lunch at Mi Pueblo. I had chips and salsa and a breakfast burrito. Then we went by Starbucks to get our caffeine fix. I tried the mocha cookie Frappuccino and I am stuffed full of food and sugar. We leave the Phoenix area at 1:30 pm and head west on the 72 towards Parker, AZ. We stopped in Lake Havasu City to see the London Bridge and the temperature is over 100 degrees. Someone had a lot of money to afford to transport this beautiful structure and reassemble it with all the original pieces – I’m glad they did.

catching the train

catching the train

We take exit 133 from Hwy 40 towards Goffs and stopped for some pictures of a train sitting on the tracks. We make it to Baker (town of the world’s largest thermometer) and have trouble getting gas. I tried my ‘broken’ card first and then my other, then my dad tried his and we both ended up inside – his worked, but not at the ATM. I called my other card company to let them know I would be traveling and it shouldn’t be an issue any more.

smooth road through Mojave National Preserve

smooth road through Mojave National Preserve

We arrive in Shoshone at the Inn at 8:30 pm. I grab towels from our room and we drive down to the natural springs-fed pool. There are two guys there enjoying the water after a long day of work and soon we are joined with bats flying overhead. The pool closes at 9:00 pm and we return to our obnoxiously loud air-conditioned room – so much so that the door is pressurized. We will turn it off before going to sleep. Dinner consists of kalamata olives, a boiled egg, three samosas, and two slices of whole grain bread with crunchy peanut butter. Sleep arrives at 11:00 pm.

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A Weekend in Phoenix

Jacumba Mountains

Jacumba Mountains

My dad spent the month of April mostly in Frankfurt visiting his mother-in-law and traveling on the weekends. He had wanted me to be able to join him and the wife over there, but it didn’t work out, so he decided to take me on a road-trip in the states and told me to bring my passport. I was able to get my neighbor, Dan, to watch the dogs and packed way too many clothes.

The day before my departure (Thursday) I decided to walk the dogs around the block. When I returned home I realized that I had dropped my phone along the way. I walked the block twice more and had random people calling it. I messaged people on Facebook to text my phone – still no luck, so I called the company and they told me to get a new phone so I could transfer my number and minutes. By the time I got home they were closed for the night, so I woke up early (Friday) and spent the morning on the phone with them.

Finally, I was told that they were going to have to send me a new sim card that would arrive after I left on a trip that could have me gone for three weeks. I was a bit upset (mostly because I wanted Caleb to have no difficulty in reaching me), but I wasn’t looking forward to the hassle of getting everyone else’s number again. I left a message on Facebook saying that I would be back when I got my old number, but I was sure to give the temporary one to my neighbor.

As if freaking out about that wasn’t enough I decided to take a relaxing shower and broke the handle off – the same one that maintenance rigged to stay on there a year ago. I suppose it was about time for it to quit (and not important enough that I didn’t bother to call). I left the house later than I would have liked to, forgot some of my dad’s things that I was supposed to return, and made it all the way to Gila Bend from a full tank (I usually leave with a half tank). I could probably make it the whole way, but it makes me nervous driving with the gas light on.

At the pump I’m told to go inside to use my card. The attendant asks how much I would like to prepay and I say $40. He tells me there is a message to, ‘call for verification’. Another attendant comes over, swipes my card, and she gets the same message. I use a different card and when back on the road call my card company. There was a charge for the $40 I authorized and that girl attendant almost charged me for $120 – glad it didn’t go through, but upset too.

The customer service agent tried telling me that the magnetic strip on my card was ruined. I told her it wasn’t the last time they sent me a new card (a month ago), so then she tells me that my card number has been compromised and my husband will have to call to order a new number. I’m upset and want to yell and cancel my card, but I like it, so I thank her. The company could have let someone run up my bill. I will have to take my power of attorney by the bank when I get home.

clouds over California

clouds over California

My dad can hear that I’m a bit tense on the phone when he calls to find out where I am. He runs to the store and buys me a Huvila Arctic Circle Ale (a Finnish ale) to help me relax when I arrive. Then gifts me with a mini porcelain pot key chain from Frankfurt and chocolate covered marzipan from Niederegger Lübeck. We watch some episodes of Freax Oder Stirb made by his friend Manuel Francescon that was released in 2006. It’s all in German, but some parts are easy for me to understand. It’s a different kind of show – one not to be shown in the U.S. yet, but that just makes it more intriguing.

We stayed up until 1:00 am and I slept in until 7:30 am (Saturday). Caleb called while my dad was in the shower, so he went out for coffee giving us some time alone. I’ve been spoiled on this deployment getting to talk to Caleb and see him so often, so going a week or two seems devastating. We were able to talk for 45 minutes or more before internet began messing up. Caleb finally figured out that he has to accept my photos for them to download and was extremely pleased…this whole time I thought it might be a Bahrain law on lewdness.

Figuring we wouldn’t be in Phoenix long and it had been a while since visiting my favorite restaurants my dad decided to make a day of it. We went to Gil’s for a chips and guacamole lunch with dessert at Saba’s – baklava! We stopped by Indo-Euro for samosas and Hobnobs, went by REI for dried fruit and a can of gas for the camp cooker, and WinCo for trail-mix and oatmeal.  Then we had dinner at Oregano’s. We usually get the Guaca Tony (guacamole with thin pizza ‘chips’), but decided to try something different – sweet potato fries with garlic mustard and a Margherita pizza.

Full of good food and needing to get up early we went to bed early too – 11:30 pm. (Sunday) We made it to Wildflower Bread Co. before the Mother’s Day rush. I had lemon ricotta pancakes and my dad had some breakfast sandwich. We would both eat half leaving me the other halves for lunch and he would eat the leftover pizza from last night while finishing up a post about Germany. We leave the house at 3:00 pm heading to Prescott to pick up Caroline from a weekend of knitting with a friend.

We stopped at a Starbucks because Caroline was feeling sluggish and my dad got barked at on the way in, so after ordering his coffee he went outside to make friends. I tried a caramel crunch Frappuccino and we ended up talking to the dog owners for two hours about science, death, teddy bears, reunions, travel, pets, siblings, etc. We wouldn’t get home until 9:30 pm and I had a slice of rye with three cheeses and some spicy mustard for dinner with a molasses cookie for dessert.

Then I organized the Tupperware cabinet – matching bowls with lids. I will be taking some home, some will be given to Goodwill, and I found a dish for the cheese we will be bringing on the trip. A late run to Albertson’s for ice and eggs. I will boil the eggs and the ice will go in the cooler to help chill it from the desert heat before adding the food in the morning – with more ice. I was going to write after they laid down, but ended up watching funny cat videos on YouTube until 1:00 am. My dad kept me company for 30 minutes and then I was off to drool land with staticky hair.

sunset on the AZ-85

sunset on the AZ-85

In the morning (Monday), Caroline would drive herself to work and after making sure she made it safely we went to the rental car office and picked up a maroon 2013 Kia Optima that we were an hour late picking up. I called my neighbor and he assured me that my dogs had survived the weekend. We would not leave Phoenix until 1:30 pm, but my dad had planned for this and our first stop would not be far. It was determined that I would be unaware of where we would stop, but I knew we were headed north to Canada.

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Cribbage on a Harley in a Hot Tub

mountains near the 905

mountains near the 905

Caleb’s Uncle Ed was in town working and we hung out during his off time. Last Thursday I picked him up from work at Naval Air Station North Island and we went to Seaport Village to look at boats, birds, and benches. Then we went to Indigo Café for some pasta – he had the Cajun pesto and I had the tequila penne – both delicious. We spent the time catching up. I first met Ed in April 2011 while I was living in Jacksonville and he was down here in Oct. 2012 and we went out to Julian for apple pie and bought two to bring home.

For his last visit in October he was staying in barracks on base. This time he would be at the Best Western Seven Seas in Hotel Circle in a room with lots of mirrors, free breakfast and dinner, two hours of free beer from the bar, near the hot tub, and with frequent flyers for pizza and Chinese food coming in the door. The hot tub was great. It made me sweat. Afterwards we went to the hotel diner for dessert. I ordered a slice of cheesecake (that I would get to go) and he ordered a sundae (big enough for three people) that we ended up sharing and not finishing.

rolling hills near Mesa Preserve

rolling hills near Otay Preserve

Friday we drove up to the Harley Davidson dealership in Kearny Mesa (the one out of three in the area that does rentals) and rented a 2013 Electra Glide Ultra Limited (the only one left for the weekend). Odom helped us through the rental process with a sense of humor and got us helmets – I’m a medium. While waiting on someone to find us some ear plugs one of the girls at the merchandise counter shared some of her birthday cookies with me. Everyone there is friendly and helpful and invited me to the weekly BBQ and suggested that I learn to ride and get a bike of my own.

Ocean View Hills Pkwy

Ocean View Hills Pkwy

We went by the house so I could change into jeans, boots, and a long-sleeved shirt. We took the bike out and covered most of the Chula Vista area from the 905 south to the border fence, east to Alta Rd, on Ocean View Hills Pkwy and down Telegraph Canyon Rd – not as scenic as we were led to believe, north to Bonita Rd, and west to Hwy 5 for the ride back to the house where Ed will spend the night so we can get an early start in the morning. We eat salad for dinner and watch Ultimate Heist.

sunset on Palm Ave.

sunset on Palm Ave.

Up at 5:00 am, a first for me in a while, and Ed plans part of our route while I shower and take care of the dogs. We decide to take my car by the hotel so that it will be closer to the dealership when we are done for the day (dealership closes at 6 pm). We take Del Dios Hwy into Escondido and have breakfast at Wagon Wheel, then head north past some wineries into Fallbrook to ride some of the historic route 395. We continue north on De Luz Rd past horses, hills, farms, and deserted fields.

De Luz Road

De Luz Road

I’m not good with directions and I prefer to get lost on a motorcycle – great gas mileage and easy to turn around on very narrow roads. We take some detours, I recognize some of the roads from our to-drive list, and later we are in the town of Perris. We eventually get on Hwy 60 towards the San Bernardino National Forest, then south through the mountains to Anza Valley. From there we will take the 79 south to Julian for a slice of apple pie à la mode. We are in luck today – bike parking right out front of Julian Café and only a minute wait inside. Usually there is a waiting list with a line out the door.

me in the driver's seat (with engine off)

me in the driver’s seat (with engine off) – photo by Uncle Ed

We enjoy the beauty of Cuyamaca Rancho State Park – the busy lake, white trees and rocks, and fields of wildflowers. It seems too early to be on Hwy 8 with 41 miles between us and San Diego, but we must return the bike. I definitely have helmet hair by the end of the ride – the top is smushed and the bottom tangled (I thought my hair was still too short to worry about tying it up). As if my day hadn’t been great enough I’m treated to dinner in the hotel diner with some relaxation in the hot tub afterwards before calling it a night.

greenery near Anza Valley

greenery near Anza Valley

The next few nights (between 6-8 pm) after his work and dinner and before unwinding would be spent teaching me to play cribbage and meeting new people in the hot tub. While the bubbles are going I don’t mind how many people we can squeeze next to, but when they stop we realize just how close we are to all the other pruned bodies in the chlorinated bowl of water and someone is quick to restart the timer.

Uncle Ed’s visit seems short, but it was fun and relaxing while he was here. Soaking in a hot tub for a few nights makes me want to get an inflatable one (easier for someone who moves frequently) or make a new friend with someone who has one. Playing cribbage made me realize I haven’t played cards like that in years (counting points for a run, straight, 3 of a kind, and so on). Caleb and I play Skip-Bo and Scrabble (not a card game). I’m invited up to Washington for a ride on his Honda Goldwing (while the weather is nice in the Evergreen ‘rainy’ state) for a tour of the bay.

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Hiking and Ice Cream

Nici, Marita, and Sabrina bringing a new meaning to couchsurfing

Nici, Marita, and Sabrina bringing a new meaning to couchsurfing

It is my last day with Sabrina, Marita, and Nici the three couchsurfers that I welcomed into my home two days ago. Last night we decided to spend the morning hiking before they were due to catch the greyhound downtown. I quickly suggested Cowles Mountain – a moderate hike and a favorite of mine. Before bed I Google the Top 10 hikes in San Diego and my choice made the list for spectacular views, and is one of the closer hikes allowing us plenty of unrushed hours for hoofing it and taking photos along the way.

hiking hands with color changing nail polish

hiking hands with color changing nail polish

Marita enjoying the view

Marita enjoying the view

We head back to the house for lunch. The girls have chosen to help me eat the leftover kasespaetzle – there will still be some lettu when they leave – and this will help with their travel budget. They want to pack some sandwiches for the road so I offer to take one to the store while the other two shower. Sabrina stays to shower and the rest of us head to Vons supermarket for cheese, tomatoes, bread, and lettuce.

proof they made it to the top

proof they made it to the top

four girls on a mountain top

four girls on a mountain top

Upon our return 45 minutes later Sabrina is still in the bathroom and my dogs have helped themselves to her bag and chewed through some cough drops. Sparky is hidden in the bedroom and soon Piggy will be too and will remain there the rest of the visit feeling guilty or at least looking so when the girls inquire to their whereabouts. Luckily nothing else was ruined and no person or dog harmed, but I don’t appreciate my host puppies being rude to our guests. My dogs can be great most times, but they still have a lot of doggy nature in their little brains that can get the better of them.

a postcard worthy photo

a postcard worthy photo

Mike texts me that he would like to take the girls out before they leave. I let him know that we will finish taking showers and that he can meet us at the beach for ice cream. The place looks different in the daylight and we walk to the end of the pier and think about fishing and jumping over for a swim (but that’s not allowed). On the pier we pass by two guys that are using nine-inch nails to secure new boards to the pier – a process I’ve never seen. One guy uses a plugged in power tool to get the nails in with two inches left for the guy with the hammer – what a workout.

the beach as seen from the pier looking north

the beach as seen from the pier looking north

some lovely kelp

some lovely kelp

Done with the pier, pigeons, and power cords dragging behind golf carts we stop into Cow-A-Bunga for a scoop of ice cream and then sit on the patio to enjoy their last minutes before I take them to the bus station. The website suggests showing up an hour before departure. They are supposed to leave at 4:15 pm and I drop them off 30 minutes prior. I didn’t know where to park, so I followed a car into the bus only lane, quickly tossed their bags out, and two hours later they message me that they are still waiting on the bus that will take them to Los Angeles – they made it – and my weekend.

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