Tecate Peak

somewhere along a dirt road - we did not look in the cooler

somewhere along a dirt road – we did not look in the cooler

It seems like forever ago, now 54 weeks, since I moved to Imperial Beach. My neighbor, Bibi, recommended that I try going to Silver Strand Spine & Sport for some upper back pain. I resisted for a while and a month later, at a spouse meeting, for my husband’s new crew I got a massage and the therapist told me my back could use a lot of work for its tension and posture.

So in I went to get adjusted and I started going three times a week like the doctor prescribed and made friends with some of the staff. We ate gummy bears, had some laughs, and eventually hung out away from the office. After a few months I was cured. Being a local business, but not a farmer, after some political dealings, the chiropractic office was able to get back into participating in the local Farmer’s Market.

It was at this market that I started talking with one of the massage therapists a bit more. She noticed my bike and asked if I would ride the Bayshore Bikeway with her. Well, we decided to try a hike first instead when she learned that I had a high-clearance vehicle. She invited me to hike Tecate Peak – not knowing much about it except that it was located off a dirt road from Hwy 94 and close to the border – and one that she had wanted to hike for a while. She was happy that I agreed and offered to buy me lunch.

I picked her up and about 40 miles later we were on a dirt road and stopped to ask a runner for directions. She pointed behind her as she continued jogging down. We could have continued in either direction to look for parking, but I pulled over and we got out. The trail was wide enough the whole way to accommodate a vehicle. We started around 9:30 and got to learn more about each other – we have a lot in common.

The trail had a vertical climb the entire time. At one point we got to see where the border fence ends. Later Ray, from border patrol, would tell us that the terrain is too difficult to fence and gives him an employment opportunity. We admired the hills covered in wildflowers; the sounds of the town of Tecate, Mexico echoing in the canyon; and the heat of the sun reflecting off the rocks onto our faces.

Betty would get a better feel of the earth, and its components, when in trying to take a shortcut – she fell. She went loose to protect herself from broken bones, but her fall would have been longer had I not screamed. We both laughed later and wished that we would have gotten a picture or video of the fall, but don’t plan on doing that again. She made it to the top with bloody ankle and scraped shoulder – she is one tough hiker.

In time for lunch, and a break, we sit atop some rocks with our water and orange wedges and enjoy the view. She didn’t feel like carrying her heavy glass water bottle back down so we went to talk to border patrol and 20 minutes later he was taking us and the bottle back down. We didn’t do well to keep track of time or distance, but many websites say the hike is 9.2 miles roundtrip. Another shortcut must have worked in our favor. Even at a quick pace we would have only covered six miles.

We appreciated the ride back to the car as the day was heating up and Betty was beginning to feel sore, but not enough to call it quits. I drove us to her house, where I met the boyfriend, and then borrowed his bike so we could ride to the local pizza joint for a slice with artichoke hearts and no meat; she only eats fish because she enjoys the catch. Then we went to the other side of town to scope out a yard sale before going to the Lighthouse ice cream shop where I got a scoop of blueberry cheesecake and pistachio almond to go. It was a great day and I was happy to spend it with a new friend.

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A Child’s Perspective

I don’t want to go down on the list that doesn’t go to heaven because heaven sounds like a nice place.

The most important person I know…is a parent because they made me on this Earth.

On the way home from school…I like going to town to go to the library, bank, Vic’s Grocery, and Ada’s Candy Creations.

If I were an animal I would be a…kitten with someone who loves me and a cozy house to go to at night.

Halloween…I painted my fingernails and toenails different colors. My sister wanted to be like me, so she painted her nails too.

Student Council…I grangrajulate (congratulated) the winners. I was a campaign manager. (One that needed to work on my big words.)

The worst problem that kids face today…teenage gangs, teenage mom’s, reckless driving, drugs, and jail without having fun and growing up. Also when you’re born for your mom to leave you in the middle of nowhere with no home and no clothes. (1995)

My favorite subject…Science. I get to experiment and find out new things in nature.

New Year’s Resolution…pass 4th grade, help the homeless, be a good citizen, not miss the bus, and get a computer.

My favorite time of year is…Spring. You can play all day and never have a worry.

We are going downtown to take pictures in the bluebonnets. I think I dressed nice for the picture on accident.

Right now I would like to be…in a learning environment enjoying my friends company.

(Some things never change.)

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Sixty Months Of Obsessively Connected Hearts

Nov. 15, '08 at the Sip 'N Dip in Great Falls, MT

Nov. 15, 2008 at the Sip ‘N Dip in Great Falls, MT

May 28, '09 at Yellowstone Nat. Park

May 28, 2009 at Yellowstone Nat. Park

Oct. 8, '10 at Sykes and Cooper Farms Corn Maze in Elkton, FL

Oct. 8, 2010 at Sykes and Cooper Farms Corn Maze in Elkton, FL

May 21, '11 at Jon's birthday party in Jacksonville, FL

May 21, 2011 at Jon’s birthday party in Jacksonville, FL

Mar. 14, 2012 post hike at Camelbak Mtn. in Phoenix, AZ

Mar. 14, 2012 post hike at Camelbak Mtn. in Phoenix, AZ

If a photo is worth a thousand words…well then, these pictures save me from writing 5,000…not that I wouldn’t, but I don’t know where to start and the ending is still 80 years away (yes, we should be dead by then).

We have laughed and cried together. We have kissed and loved each other. We have known one another for almost eight years. I’ve made it rough, but you stay tough. We are learning to be ourselves and how to make us happier each day together.

We have moved (a lot), met old friends and made new ones, and added two dogs to our equation. We’ve been in a crowd of over a million (NYE in Times Square), but our favorite time together is in a crowd of two – silent or loud, hot or cold, wet or dry, broke or not, fat days and thin, moody or nice – it is your hand that I want to hold, your lips that I want to kiss, and your toes that I want to miss. Happy Fifth Anniversary Caleb; I love you!

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Petrified Forest: Take 2

rainbow colored wood

rainbow colored wood

My last visit on June 22, 2004 was a pre-Navy, post-high school trip with my dad. He wanted to show me what freedom looked like before I locked myself into the Navy for 20 years – that’s what I had planned. I got out after 2.5 years and meeting my husband. This trip was a return into natural beauty because it’s something we both enjoy. Last time I thought the ‘rocks’ were pretty, but I was under the impression that the park was the size of a small petting zoo for trees.

a log with bark

a log with bark

This trip would show me otherwise. We had to drive to see other parts…well, to bring the car with us along the way. There used to be a happy little forest family living here, then one day…life happened, and now we get to see the rainbow desert that has evolved over the years. I can relate. Parts of me have changed over the years, but my love for nature and family is still growing and expanding. Other parts have helped me harden who I am – making me more colorful and stronger in hopes that I will last a long time too.

redhill

Out here I feel as though we have the planet to ourselves. I read aloud from the brochure so that we may learn how the wind, water, and Earth’s movements have helped shape this place and how determined thieves are to make less of the history. There are signs for inspection and my dad even makes a joke, but to us it’s no laughing matter. Naturally these wonders won’t be here forever, so there is no need to rush things along. We leave footprints, take pictures, then drive to Holbrook for lunch at Joe & Aggie’s Café.

whitehill

I order some cheese enchiladas, look through the reading books they have available on the table, and then order some sopapillas too. We are in a Mexican food mood today because upon arriving home, and after I Skype Caleb, we will pick up Caroline and head to Gil’s Taste of Taos where I will eat a breakfast burrito…and some more sopapillas. We will return the next day for lunch with Christine after the guild meeting – that’s good food and great customer service that keeps us coming back.

me and dad in the Petrified Forest

me and dad in the Petrified Forest

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Chaco Culture National Historical Park

chacsi

The main point of this trip was for my dad to bring me to this place – a magical gathering of spirit, food, music, and communion among a thousand ‘locals’ and travelers from 1,100 years ago. And that magic can still be felt today. I can hear the drums reverberating off the canyon walls, I can see their petroglyphs that have lasted through the weather, and I can feel the dirt between my toes as they would have.

chacru

a goat trying to get the grass

a goat trying to get the grass

This place is larger than I could have imagined. Most ‘ruins’ are a few bricks left in the dirt – and some may consider this park just that, but there are still windows, and seats, and wood in the frames. And today there will be a descendant that speaks to my dad and I about his ancestors – so touching that I still tear up writing this. He has such a connection with his history and family – something I yearn for.

looking at Pueblo del Arroyo from the Pueblo Alto Trail

looking at Pueblo del Arroyo from the Pueblo Alto Trail

a shortcut to the bottom

a shortcut to the bottom

Overwhelmed by the awesomeness of this place we agree to stay another day. We see Chetro Ketl, Pueblo Bonito, Pueblo del Arroyo, Kin Kletso, and Casa Chiquita the first day and hike the Pueblo Alto Trail (5.1 miles roundtrip) the next – took us 4.5 hours. This leaves us with three unhiked trails and a four-wheel drive road with another prehistoric site. I would love to stay another 2-3 days exploring this place – and maybe one day I can when I return. Dinner will be truffled mac-n-cheese at the Badlands Grill in Gallup. More photos by me can be found on my Flickr page.

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